Step out of your comfort zone and face your fears! Grouth takes place when you are challanged, not when you are comfortable! Very often it means that you have to do what you are afraid or scared of in order to find what you didn't know you were looking for. This takes a lot of courage! It is only scary because it is unknown, not because you are uncapeble! You are not here to play it safe, you are here to LEVEL UP! Let your discomfort become your drive. Good things are bound to happen! Have faith - in yourself-! 💜

At first glance, they can look similar. Both involve giving, caring, and considering others. But the inner source is completely different. 🌿 People-Pleasing (Psychological Perspective) People-pleasing is driven by fear. Fear of: - rejection - conflict - being disliked - abandonment - being “too much” or “not enough” It comes from a nervous system that learned: “I stay safe by keeping others happy.” When you people-please: - you override your own needs - you suppress your truth - you say yes when your body says no - you seek external validation - you feel anxious or resentful afterward People-pleasing disconnects you from yourself. It’s not generosity — it’s self-abandonment. 🌌 Kindness (Spiritual Perspective) Kindness is rooted in wholeness. It comes from: - inner safety - self-connection - self-respect - emotional regulation When you’re kind: - you don’t lose yourself - you don’t need approval - you can say no without guilt - your giving feels clean and nourishing - your energy remains intact Kindness flows from fullness, not fear. It’s an expression of love — not a strategy for safety. 💛 How to tell the difference in the moment Ask yourself: - Am I doing this to be liked or to be true? - Does this expand me or drain me? - Would I still do this if no one praised me? - Can I say no without my body panicking? Your body always knows. Tight chest, shallow breath, urgency = people-pleasing. Open chest, grounded breath, calm clarity = kindness. ✨ The deeper truth Kindness includes yourself. People-pleasing excludes you. Kindness honours boundaries. People-pleasing avoids them. Kindness builds connection. People-pleasing builds resentment. You don’t need to become less kind to stop people-pleasing. You need to become more connected to yourself. And when kindness comes from that place, it heals - you and everyone around you.

I had this realisation today: how can I trust my inner guidance if I think that everyone knows it better than me. The world is loud. Opinions, expectations, timelines, comparisons — all competing for your attention. But beneath the noise, there is something steady. A quiet knowing. A truth that doesn’t shout — it waits. No amount of external chaos can erase what you already carry within you. It can distract you. It can confuse you. But it cannot change who you are at your core. Your truth lives in your body, your breath, your intuition. It speaks through resonance, not volume. Through calm, not urgency. When you slow down, when you return to yourself, when you listen — the noise fades on its own. Yes, you might need to take yourself out of your current environment into nature, into silence and calmness in order to distant yourself from the programming of others. Not because the world gets quieter, but because you remember where to place your attention. And when you do, the truth inside you becomes impossible to ignore. 🌿✨ How do you honour your inner guidance? Do you have a daily practice? I meditate, but to be honest with all of you, meditation helps me observe my thoughts, but what really helps me hear my guidance is walking or running.

Not as a metaphor - but as a biological, psychological, and energetic reality. From a scientific perspective, your brain is a filter. It strengthens the neural pathways you use most often. Whatever you repeatedly think about, look for, or emotionally charge, your brain learns to prioritise. Focus on lack - the brain scans for more lack. Focus on threat - the nervous system stays on alert. Focus on possibility - new pathways begin to open. From a spiritual perspective, attention is energy. Where your awareness goes, energy flows. And where energy flows, life expands. This doesn’t mean you ignore pain or bypass reality. It means you choose what you feed. Every moment you are training your system: what to notice, what to amplify, what to make real. When you gently shift your focus toward presence, gratitude, curiosity, or growth, your inner world reorganises - and your outer world slowly follows. You don’t have to control every thought. You only need to notice where your attention lives. Because what you focus on, you strengthen. What you strengthen, you become. And what you become… shapes your life. ✨ Choose wisely.

It’s not something you “arrive at” one day and tick off the list (although, that's what I thought for so long and I wish it was like that! Would be a lot easier in some ways :D). It's something you practice - again and again - in ordinary moments. Self-love lives in the choices you make when no one is watching: how you speak to yourself, how you rest, how you set boundaries, how you forgive your humanity, how you stay with yourself on the hard days, how you show up for yourself when it's hard. From a scientific perspective, self-love is regulation. Each kind thought, each gentle pause, each moment of self-compassion tells your nervous system: I am safe with myself, I can trust myself. And safety is what allows healing, clarity, and growth to happen. From a spiritual perspective, loving yourself is devotion. A promise to meet yourself where you are, not where you think you should be. A choice to remain connected to your own heart - even when it’s uncomfortable. Some days, loving yourself looks soft. Some days it looks like discipline. Some days it looks like rest. Some days it looks like the truth. But every day, it’s a choice. Not perfection. Not constant confidence. Just commitment. And the more consistently you choose yourself, the more natural love becomes —not as a destination, but as the way you live. 🌿💛