A thought I had, don’t take it too seriously: Ruin your life with courageous action so that importance erodes and you become free, keeping your ability to express intention. As soon as something becomes important, a relationship or a job or a position, you will feel forced to perform actions to keep them, you lose a lot of energy for things that you most likely just stumbled upon. There are traps in this way of life you have to be careful of though: don’t let one courageous action be your state of being. For every time you perform the same action the action in on itself looses some of its intention. For example, being a jester is a courageous action that requires intention if have not had much experience with women, don’t let the top Gs discourage you, be a jester for a bit. But do it enough times and it simply becomes a state of being. You don’t want to let jestering be a state of being. Move on to the next couragous action once you have gotten enough of a taste. Anyone that stays within one action of being for too long looses their ability of intention and becomes nothing more than an animal following its natural rule. Another trap is to belive that intention has to be restricted by single actions. intention can be long term actions as well, like for example, committing to a 3 year long project is a courageous action that requires courage and intention if you have not done it before. But if you then keep doing the 3 year long projects the intention of the action erodes away and importance will chain you down to an animalistic state of being and drain your enthusiasm for living. You must move on to the next thing. Until your life becomes a direct reflection of your intended actions. I.e your idea of happiness.