@Paula Elmer It's hard for me to even read your story because is reminds me of the conflict I have with my oldest daughter. So I hurt for you and for me. She is quite lovely but can be rather intense. And I have it better than you because she often says loves me and never bad mouths me but sometimes she's angry with me (seemingly inappropriately for the moment but I'm sure there's underlying stuff behind it all). And it hurts to think we haven't really resolved it. So I'm hoping that this course will help us. Meanwhile I am dealing with my son's wife (they are having heavy marital problems) and she hasn't allowed us to see 5 of our 12, glorious grand babies for a year now. So this season has been super hard. I feel like crying as I write. I hope we learn together Paula and we will be able to share good news of growth and reconciliation in the future. 0