One Relationship Pattern I Am Working On: Allowing myself to react to comments that leaves me feeling judged and needing to over explain myself. How It Affects My Energy: My energy is disturbed and aggravated. Why This Matters: This matters because it steals my focus and drains my energy. Today I proved: I AM someone who focuses on what matters because building the resilience to navigate these difficult moments and having the courage to confront it with honest and love, helps me to live my life in truth and freedom.