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% days challenge Day 4 questions
This is part of my questions: "Physical health is the exact dimension that brought you to this work in the first place, after watching up close what a lifetime of chronic stress does to a body. And your morning explains why it's still last: "in 3 days it will be wake up at 6.30," then the 18/09 titration, the 8/10 Arts Council answer, the 20/10 cohort. Nearly every functioning part of your day is currently waiting for a container to arrive. Your body is the one area no external container can hold on your behalf." This was so helpful. This is my second time doing teh 5 days challenge and I have done cohort 3 so a lot of things are different but I love how it is still surprising me and explaining things in a way that makes so much sense. I don't know if anyone will relate but even if it does to one person, it is worth sharing.
0 likes • Sep 4
@Melody Vi Thank you. I am planning to. How arre you finding it? Helpful?
This feels too intrusive just to join a workshop
Something feels off here. I just want to watch the workshops please without having to jump through all these hoops & giving you my information & pihoto.
0 likes • Sep 1
@Susan Cal Is it? the one on the icon? I much prefer to be behind teh camera than in front of it. But a computer screen seems to be easier.
1 like • Sep 1
@Rita Roine Just trust the process as they say. tehse questions are amazing and what you get at the end... gosh it is something that will probably get you emotional. you two. Feel free to drop me a line anytime
Aug 29 • 
💬 General
🌸 An invitation (for the not-quite-ready)
If one of my last posts made it sound like you need to have your life together before the Challenge starts this Monday… let me fix that. 😄 You don't.💖 Neither do I. 🙈 Come exactly as you are, tired, messy, half-ready, fully unsure. Show up for the 5 days. And hey, stick around for Day 6 too 😉✨ Ready is overrated. Showing up is everything. 👇🌸
🌸 An invitation (for the not-quite-ready)
2 likes • Sep 1
@Renee Kers thanks. to be fair August has been really good. I got a lot of writing done. not much else though!
2 likes • Sep 1
@Renee Kers Don't overdo it!
On Writing "I was freezing too much on stuff others found easy."
Just finished the first section of my ADHD Snapshot and realized something I never connected: my "freezing" doesn't happen when things get hard, it happens when things start to matter to me. The struggle lives exactly where my desire lives. Still processing that one. The "Getting out of the Maze" can be tricky for me. I know how to regulate myself (breathe and other stuff) but.... how to give structure to chaos when you are "in it" still eludes me. I experience this mostly with Writing (or putting something together from scratch) as well as when Editing, I usually don't know how to edit myself out of rambling or what I consider messy/unclear "garbage" Anyone had experienced this and successfully overcomed it? Two guiding lights for me so far have been "Speak/Write with Frameworks" and "Regulate before/during/after" but that's about it. When I'm in Chaos Mode / Don't know how to continue I sometimes feel like I have a learning disability.
1 like • Aug 31
Hi Joey. Really enjoyed your question in the Q&A tonight. By using the AI during the 5 days challenge (back in April) and then in the cohort 3, I can say writing like we expect it is different to writing pouring out of you. I had written stuff for the last 3 years, more like a stream of consciousness. Since the challenge, my ability has changed. I have also changed the tools I am using the the voice to typing was a game changer. From how you spoke tonight, I think you have a lot to share. I am happy to discuss writing in a private chat or here if you do not trust the platform yet. Whatever feels confortable. I have now written so much without judging now I know it can be done. I hope this week challenge will help you. Gaelle
The real reason you struggle to finish what you start
"Jim doesn't apply himself." That's a real sentence from my elementary school reports. I found them a few years ago, while I was rebuilding my life after my burnout. Black on white: "Jim doesn't apply himself." "Jim is easily distracted." "Jim has potential, but." Here's the part that got me. I had no memory of any of it. But some part of me clearly did. Because I spent the next twenty years proving those sentences right. Starting things and abandoning them. Calling myself lazy. Collecting 30K worth of unfinished courses as evidence. And that's the realization I promised you on Friday: Every app, planner and course I ever bought was trying to change what I DO. But underneath what you do, something else is running that decides everything: the story of who you believe you are. Sentences installed by teachers, parents, bosses, a system that was never built for your brain. Most of them before you turned ten. You never chose them. You don't remember agreeing to them. And they've been quietly running your life ever since. Those sentences are where the daily stuff actually comes from. The procrastination. The overwhelm at a normal to-do list. The anxiety. The overthinking. The fear of being judged. You think you have a productivity problem. You have old beliefs with productivity symptoms. The difference between "I am lazy" and "I have a belief that says I'm lazy" is huge. One is a life sentence. The other is code you can rewrite. That is what makes this challenge differente. Not just productivity tips. Five days where we go underneath the behavior, find who you were before those sentences, and start closing the gap between who you are right now and who you're actually built to be. This is the work that changed my life. Not the apps. This. Last Friday, many of you shared your intention for this challenge. I read every single one, and most of them are versions of the same wish: to finally finish something, to stop fighting yourself.
7 likes • Aug 19
challenge
2 likes • Aug 20
@Judy Hamilton Hi Judy. you too. How are you getting on? Smiles Gaelle
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Gaelle Penhallow
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Creative, mindful, fan of Japan. In ADHD burnout

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