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4d •
What is a fear you’ve overcome or outworked?
‘Every time fear wins it is strengthened.’ That quote terrifies me. - What mindset/reframe helped you overcome hesitation? Fear puts invisible walls up on the possibilities of our life. Some are simply good for us, some are learned and purely fed by an unruly commitment to feeling inadequate. I say ‘commitment’ because if the same diligence was put into convincing ourselves greater than that fear, we would inevitable conquer it. When you take a radical ownership of your life, you realize playing against fears is the fastest way feeling truly present and alive. It builds a confidence faster than any other habit. It makes you wonder ‘what else have I been holding myself back from?’ - I DESPISE being on camera. So I’ve done over 270media posts since 2020. The chance what I share is valuable to somebody is more important than my insecurity. - I feared starting public interactions, so I did 100reps of just saying “Hey, I’m working on breaking my social anxiousness, can I ask you a story-question?’ And asked one from ‘Compass of Connection’😜 it became a fave thing to do when stuck on a chairlift now ! - I feared being misunderstood and social conflict. Because my upbringing reference was malicious conduct and put-downs. I didn’t want to act that way. So learning to slow down, reframe to ‘us vs problem’ conduct, I actually am fairly excited during misunderstandings. It is an opportunity to see how truly committed we are to a harmony, or whether insecurity is still running the show. Nothing refines connection like stacking victories over issues. I KNOW I get to be a living example of healthy conduct and change others sense of possibility for how arguements can unfold:) How about you??
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@Jonathan Delgado This comment is so real and relatable. I admire you for speaking on this journey to confidence and accepting yourself. It’s not easy, it takes trial and error, and lots and lots of practice. I already know @Dan 'Remmy' Stourac will have such a strong reply to this. In my experience, I too would mask those around me, soften my self expression, and open up to people the parts of myself that I thought were “likeable”. I became a master not at lying to people but at concealing certain parts of myself to frame myself in a light that was disingenuous. We are so hard on ourselves while having so much compassion for others. We decide for other people that we shouldn’t talk too much about what we’re passionate about in fear that they won’t find it important or interesting. The irony being that if those people confessed their true selves to us we would love them anyway. @Dan 'Remmy' Stourac can you please speak to getting in your own way and allowing the world to say no to you? How rewarding is it to show up as your true authentic self and to be celebrated for it? Cheers to you and all of the beautiful and messy parts that make up who you are!
2d •
Gratitude Dump #1
Beginning weekly gratitude dumps for us all to share wins, precious moments, appreciations and the funny ways life twists, turns and changes on us so quickly. - 4 days back deep into van life. Drove 12hrs, grateful for a reliable home on wheels and the beauty around every corner of NZ. (First few pics below) - For finding friends on hikes as I wander and being welcomed into strangers lives. - For getting to celebrate @Cassidy White beginning her new beginning travel nursing in Australia! Proud of her expanding her life so boldly. - @Brendan OCallaghan for being a rock solid new friend the last 2ish months. Having a brother to share things we are truly working through and being a frontline supporter on all things. And taking on gratitude journalling and already reaping the many serene benefits of it! - Getting to wake up to the rest of you making such a beautiful supportive and inviting environment here. It’s also been so good on my mind to leave other socials behind and solely nurture this. Sooo much less brain fog and time wasted doomscrolling. - Grateful for cute animals and kind people. - For experiencing high and low-tides of the ocean .. feels like the earth is breathing and beaming with life here. - For a healthy body that can do ridiculous hikes and heal (reasonably) quickly. - For neighbours that invite me on the sea and give me a top notch first overnight sea fishing trip, despite being sea sick 20hrs straight 😆 #sayyestotheadventure! How about you guys? Photos for extra cool credits
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Thank you for celebrating me so proudly, pal 🥹 I’m so grateful for so many things. Here’s a small list: - To have heavy bags full of my belongings that I get to carry around with me - To have social platforms to stay connected with people that I love - For eye contact and smiles - To be a part of this platform - To have a healthy body and mind that can take me the places I want to go - For my education and career allowing me this opportunity - For my family and my friends - For the hard work I’ve done so that I have money to buy food and find shelter and catch a flight - For this amazing planet and the access that exists for me to see it - For mattresses - iykyk how good it feels to lie down after a 34 hour long adventure
7d •
How do you manage loneliness?
Hey everyone, I am a travel nurse about to take on my first contract outside of Canada! I wanted to pick your lovely brains on what you do to manage loneliness. This is a two part question: - I’m about to start a life in Australia, leaving everything behind for 1 year +. Do you have any advice on networking and building community in a new place? I want to be intentional with who I surround myself with, how do you maintain a standard of friendship when the urgency for connection is strong? - Leaving home has brought up lots of feelings. I feel there is a disconnect between myself and my loved ones who can’t relate to the experience I’m having. I feel as though time spent with me is not being prioritized by my loved ones which has left me feeling ironically lonely before I leave. How do you grieve imperfect goodbyes?
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@Nadine Rajeh to read your reflection of leaving and working abroad at 22 years old is inspiring. It’s encouraging to read about the light at the end of the tunnel. There is so much clarity in the hindsight. Can you share more about what you felt when you made the decision to work abroad or to immigrate? And what experiences reinforced you that this was the right thing for you? Was the loneliness a motivating factor? Did you have a solid foundation for “why?” Or was it more of a Hail Mary, or a gut feeling? The timing of this post, and your response of loneliness emerging when you’ve abandoned yourself 🤯 it’s blowing my mind. I wrote this post when I was in the thick of my goodbyes, and this morning I woke up for the first time in Australia. I have been welcomed so warmly by everyone that I have met and I don’t feel lonely at all. You are right, I don’t feel more connected to those around me. I feel more connected with myself. 🤯🤯🤯 It’s tricky to have faith. How many reassuring experiences do I need to have before I’m finally convinced? The logical side (which is strong) will fight me relentlessly that I need to KNOW even when I have a gut feeling that I already do. Thank you for your encouraging words and for sharing about yourself. Do you have any advice or journaling prompts to guide a newby like myself to becoming more connected with my inner self?
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@Madison Peyer Thank you for your encouraging comments on my post. You helped me to realize that after a long night of packing, going through sentimental items, and reminiscing on fond memories I was naturally feeling the weight of the sacrifice I was making. In contrast, after a normal evening after a day of work for my loved ones, the emotional energy is not the same. I was the source of the disconnect, not them. What a relief. I had communicated my desire for quality time, but to send that request carried a lot more weight than I imagine it would to receive it. I have ample evidence that I am loved and no longer feel the need to have a “perfect goodbye” to reassure me of that. Thank you. I also appreciate your advice on how to create connections with new people. It’s ironic how “random” friendship can be in youth and how friendship blooms in the random places in adulthood. I know you’re saying that these places aren’t random but isn’t it a little funny that we have social places in society designed to help people mingle but where we make friends most commonly is in the places you don’t go to connect? I value what you say about being intentional in the way we maintain connections with those back home as I stumble forward creating relationships here. “You are exactly what you need to go out and get some new friends” 🫂🥰 Writing this down in my journal. Thank you.
13d •
What is YOUR definition of a best friend?
If you could DESIGN the ideal friend, what qualities would you give them? Everybody has different needs and different styles of support to balance and optimize their lives. (Read to the bottom for why this is SO important) My ideal friend would be something like: - 🧠 Challenges my beliefs and integrity. Because I value learning and consistency. - 🧗 Adventurous, fit and spontaneous. Because every venture is enriched in good company. As well as friendly competition. - 🖊️ Emotionally literate and curious. I value the truth and mutual understanding. - 📈 Bold and legacy-orientated. To have a friend who understand and truly appreciates the difficulties and unique joys that come with life-spanning goals. Who acts in such a way to leave people and places better than we found them. - 🎸 Knows how to balance work and play. Because I need reminders to go be silly for silliness sake and stay forever young 🤙 *Why make this list as detailed as possible?* Because if YOU want that in a friend, then so do OTHERS! You can wrap your free time around becoming the valuable individual you wish to find in the world. You will never be bored another day of your life as you pursue that sort of excellence. Inevitably, you cannot help but attract people of a common chord. This community is living proof of that. I am honour by each of your presence and contribution! To the aligned goal of celebrating life’s strange twists, supporting one another’s unique path, and collaborating our collective love and wisdom so others may prosper alongside us! No matter where they are in their journey 🤝 I did a 2-part video explaining how our values are supported by a foundation of gratitude in Actualizing Gratitude P.1 (4:26) - How to Lead Yourself - Badass Gratitude · ProSpirit Check that out for more context and come back with your reflections so others may grow from your unique insight:)
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@Lisa Black a few years ago both of my older brothers were single and struggling with finding love. We were sitting around a fire one night with some of their friends (who were frustrated with the same) and I was listening to them speak of reconsidering their expectations of a partner. The solution they had come to was that they didn’t need a partner who could meet them on an emotional or intellectual level, they decided having someone at home who would cook, clean, and lay with them at the end of the day would have to be enough. It was pretty disheartening to hear them all agreeing to settle for less than what they truly wanted because they were beginning to think more wasn’t possible for them. The conversation shifted when one of my brothers said “we know that Cass will make a great partner to someone one day, so other girls like that must exist”. They then spoke of their dreams for relationships without having to settle. My brothers (and their friends who I grew up alongside) believed in love because I exist. This stuck with me because I realized in that moment that we should believe in people if we believe in ourselves. A quote that comes to mind is “you are going to have a wonderful life because you are wonderful” -unknown (if anyone knows who wrote this please enlighten me!) Lisa, you said you are open and honest and wear your heart on your sleeve. And you spoke of the reminder to not lose faith. If you exist (in all of the beautiful ways that you do) despite the challenges life has given you, there must be others out there too. Even Vincent Van Gogh wrote in 1888 “I feel that there is nothing more truly artistic than to love people”. With art and people alike, it takes trial and error. I think that’s what makes it so special when we find those best friends/ partners who show us it was worth it to remain gentle :)
Aug 24 •
Introduce Yourself!
Hello awesome people, I'd like to kick off with an quick intro and allow others to introduce yourselves! *Please: 1: Say hello. 2: Share a little about yourself along with an ambition or two. 3: Share a photo or gif that represents you.* <And also stay in the loop by downloading the apps here: Get the iOS app here. Get the Android app here.> Here you can meet the other growing, intentional people that have been invited and yet to find us! I am Dan, also go by my middle name for my pen name, Remmy, (Remmington). I am a cancer-surviving, horseback guiding, story-crafting, fear-facing, fumbling forward man of action! It is my absolute delight to take my life's work and it into gamified courses on this platform. It will help you explore your own inner-being, wage war on whatever woes you're facing, take bold steps, and celebrate the blooper reel of us valiantly fumbling forward. It's messy, but boy, it can be a beautiful ride through life when shared alongside people who want to squeeze the marrow out of life. We all have different ambitions and struggles to conquer, but our self-actualization is the ultimate gift we can give ourselves and those who we share life with. A rising tide raises all ships. This group is for those wildly curious of their own potential. We support: - Conquering bad habits - Building emotional literacy and resilience - Accountability to new risks and desires - Waging war on loneliness and navigate how to deepen relationships - massive action and breaking limits imposed on our own potential I can't wait to meet you all and for you to meet one another. Cheers to epic new beginnings.🤙
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Hi everyone, my name is Cassidy! I have been a big fan of Remmy’s since I met him. My first interaction with him, I asked him if he liked to cook as he was crouched cooking a hotdog over a fire. Being the small talk hater that he is, he asked me to sit at a table with him and he asked me what my biggest fear was in reply. Remmy has been and inspiration and a guide in my life ever since. I’m so excited to impose myself onto this page. It’s so cool to get to learn from you all. As you embark on or continue your journeys as entrepreneurs, I’ll be cheering you on! Cheers!
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@Natalie Miller Natalie!! I’m so happy you’re here. I still have the bracelet you made for me on that out trip at kuriakos. AND the sweet note you gave me thanking me for helping you with your meds throughout the week. Girl, I am so impressed with your ability to connect with all types. You meet people on such a human to human level, you celebrate others wins, and above all, you are kind. Your artistic outlets are beautiful. If you are ever looking to share anything you create, know you have a cheering squad behind you. Share some of your recent reads too!! Have you read “An Arsenal of Gratitude” or “Pissed Off With a Purpose” yet? The author of those is one of my favourites 😉 I remember the time you told me about a university class you weren’t able to attend with a professor that was unwilling to accommodate for you. You didn’t let that stop you, took the class remote, and ended up with a higher grade than your peers who took her class. As Remmy has taught us not to get in our own way, you persevered. Her “no” wasn’t the end of your story with that class. With this level of ambition, I know you are going to do great things. You have such a genuine heart and I can’t wait to see where life takes you ❤️❤️
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@cassidy-white-8497
Who am I other than a girl trying to find my way?
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Joined Sep 2, 2025