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I went out to daygame again to test it AGAIN (I have 850 approaches on my belt in daygame, I never got real results, just a few dates), as I am in the process of still working on step 1 of MOA as instructed (taking 20 good photos). I don't want to skip steps of MOA as I have done in the past months. Daygame, again, doesn't work for an hard case like myself (it works for average people though, yes - it has worked for 2 friends of mine) if your goal is to get an attractive girlfriend or attractive fuckbuddies. There aren't enough attractive women that you get the point you can offset the numbers required to get a date, being an hard case. As a 5'1 guy who cannot dominate a 3rd language (I am an Italian expat living in Madrid) to a point where the use of words and improvising jokes allow him to be charismatic and compensate the lack of language skills, height and physique (I have health issues that give me a big belly and unable to build mass - although I am not fat). I hope there are people who can relate - frustration from daygame and apps' is the reason why I am giving MOA a shot. Sorry if this post came out weird-written, I was definitely emotional, as I am feeling alone as like I have no chances. Thanks.

Another month completed means another month with wins. Even if it's just a small win, it can be nice to take some time to celebrate. I often forget about my wins and just focus on achieving more and more all the time. That's a good thing according to me but when I reflect over my wins, I feel even more motivated to keep going. It can be anything from getting numbers, going on dates, or just something in fitness or work. What are your wins for October?

Guys I am frustrated. Tomorrow I have my second event and, out of the 3 women they told me they would have come, none of them confirmed. This will be my second event in total, and the second NO SHOW event for ALL the people who said they would have come. For now I have 95 open threads - I started 3 weeks ago. I am losing faith in the method. After 860+ daygame approaches and only 6 friendzone dates, over 3 years. I am 5'1 and, live in Madrid, Spain, where the language they speak it's my third language and salaries are much lower than you Anglosaxon's guys to do a pro photoshoot whenever I want. Honestly, I am fucking frustrated. I don't even believe those fucking 95 open threads will lead to anything. I will have to get back to daygame and eat months of rejections before I get a date. It will fuck up my mind

I’m bringing 3 hot women (two of them are also bringing some of their friends) to my first MOA event next Saturday. It’s not my own event—it’s a daytime DJ set at a renowned artisanal cocktail party in a chic area here in Madrid, Spain. The following Saturday (20th of Sept), I invited a lot of hot women on IG to Madrid’s Fashion Week. So far, only 2 invitations have been accepted, but I’ve got about 80 open threads (including positive responses about potentially being invited to future events) after one month of daily cold DMing 50 hot women on IG. My question is: is it enough to have 2 or 3 women confirm on one single event, considering the risk that 1 or 2 of them might not show up? In that case, the situation could backfire—if only 1 or 2 show up, they may not want to attend future events because they see me as "someone who is trying too hard to do something not his size". Unfortunately, I don’t currently have the budget for professional photoshoots to upgrade my IG account and increase the number of accepted invitations (and therefore bring more women to each event). Fortunately, I have some preselection on my IG thanks to photos I took on past dates, including one with a female friend (although I am not longer in contact with her). However, I am posting 4 stories a day (fun or serious, as suggested by Michael Sartain) and I get 20-30 views each from women, some of them I previously DM'd with an event's invitation. That said, I haven’t yet capitalized on the engagement from various women who watch my stories by actually messaging them. Just thinking out loud here for some creative ways to maximize my situation. Or maybe I’m just overthinking, and this is simply a normal stage—I just need to wait a bit and let the open threads I’ve seeded start bearing fruit... Btw, my IG is https://www.instagram.com/fabiano_rubiu/ Many thanks, Men of Action!!!