Our only grandchild is PDA ADHD and although these are only labels , it is a starting point. In assisting with his journey I am getting a whole new clarity on my own journey. High achiever, academically bright but with a lifelong pattern of mild OCD behaviours and procrastination which has been costly over the years, both monetary and relationship wise. With age the procrastination and inability to complete is becoming a many headed monster which in turn ramps up anxiety and depression.