Is it normal to feel like I am just being a wife doing what God wants me to do every day? The reason I ask this is because I am doing what I normally would do if Bud was not sick at all.. I do some different tasks that I would not have to do if he was totally well. He still has mobility most of the time, so he does a lot of things outside of the house when he feels up to it. That leaves me to be able to do housework that I can not do when he is here.