4 years ago, in September 2021, my marriage ended. After 12 years together, everything I thought was stable ... wasn’t. Some people call it an "avoidant discard". I just remember the silence. The sleepless nights. The confusion. It took me 6 months to realize what I was truly grieving: not just my wife, but the image of who I thought I’d be. Then another 12 months to rebuild myself... emotionally, mentally, spiritually... so that I could rebuild us on new, secure terms. That journey became the foundation of everything I teach today. And it showed me something powerful: You don’t need 18 months to heal. You don’t even need 6. When you follow the right process... There are 6 steps that can bring calm, clarity, and control in as little as 6 days to 6 weeks. I’ll be teaching all 6 steps in a FREE LIVE MASTERCLASS: 👉 Friday, October 24th at 11 AM EST How to Get Back in Control After a Breakup (Even If You’re Caught in the Anxious - Avoidant Loop) You’ll learn: - How to stop the 3am spiral fast - How to install your own “calm system” that actually sticks - How to break the anxious - avoidant loop by fixing your body first It’s for people who want stability in days, not months. Not theory. Not therapy. Just truth + tools that work. Reserve your free seat here: breakup.loveleaders.life I hope to see you Friday Matus

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Hi everyone. I'm Elmira, here in the United States. My biggest goal is to expand my capacity for love. By nature and with some traumas, I am avoidant - learning to be secure in every way. My soul mission is to heal the world of heartbreak (Already doing that) I know I can take humans further When I start with me! I have more room for love and connection . A weird thing - I can play a kazoo

WHO AM I? My name is Hendrik. The failure of a 3 year relationship and engagement is what brought me to love leaders. It’s the first time in my life I’ve stopped and really stared at my behavior and relationships with others. I am looking forward to this journey and I feel Matus is the person to guide me. WHAT IS MY GOAL? My goal is to build something beautiful for those around me that I love. WHAT IS WEIRD ABOUT ME? I have a strange inconsistency with how I feel about people and how I show up to relationships. I’m hoping to fix that.

Hi Everyone, WHOM AM I? My name is Okon Medekong I am currently working on resolving my inner choas from a 5yrs ongoing litigation process with our bankers as my business partner and I were gaslighted and framed-up for fraud. The trauma and underlying stress induced anxiety from my previous job where I wasn't giving my best caused me to spiral into severe depression At the brink of tipping point, my little effort at applying self efficacy and Grace earned me a scholarship to train as a breathwork facilitator at the international School of Alchemy of Breath (AoB), Tuckskany. Delving into my emotional world was like opening a can of worms - it was both scary and life transforming. Facing and understanding my deeply unresolved beliefs and fears around intimacy filled me with hope and empowerment to look inwards. My immediate goal is to become a love leader with the skills and experience to build a healthy relationship with the right partner MY GOAL? I am a spark of the divine and lover of Christ - sharing the truth about the gospel and being of service through breathwork I am so grateful at the opportunity of learning from Matus Hanidzair. WHAT'S WEIRD ABOUT ME. I have never experienced the joy of intimacy from a place of wholeness.