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5 contributions to Parenting with Purpose
🎉 It’s Friday—aka “I survived the week” day 🎉
Which one are you today? ☕ Running purely on caffeine and vibes 🧠 Brain is already in weekend mode 🧺 Mentally making a to-do list you won’t do 😴 Exhausted but still somehow overstimulated ✨ Proud of yourself for doing hard things this week No pressure to be productive today. Sometimes showing up is the win. Drop your Friday mood in the comments 👇 GIFs strongly encouraged 😎🎬
🎉 It’s Friday—aka “I survived the week” day 🎉
0 likes • Feb 6
All of them? Lol
Let’s talk boundaries. 👀✨
Boundaries are so important—especially in parenting. A boundary is simply a clear, consistent limit that helps kids understand what’s expected, what’s safe, and what’s not negotiable. Boundaries create structure, predictability, and security. Kids may push against them (that’s their job), but they actually feel safer when they know where the lines are. Now… can we talk about the popular “Yes Day” trend? I know it’s well-loved, but I’m not a fan. I might be on an island here 🫣 Here’s why: when we give in on boundaries, kids learn exactly how far they need to push to get us to bend. The boundary stops being a boundary and becomes a challenge. Over time, that can create more power struggles, not fewer. This doesn’t mean we never say yes or allow flexibility. It means we’re intentional. Boundaries don’t make us rigid parents—they make us predictable ones. And predictability builds trust. 💡 Boundaries aren’t about control. They’re about safety, consistency, and teaching kids how the world works. Curious to hear your thoughts— Are there boundaries in your home that feel hard to hold right now?
0 likes • Jan 27
This really resonates. Boundaries held with calm and consistency tend to feel safer than either rigidity/control or constant bending. I also notice that for some kids, pushing isn’t about testing limits but about testing capacity — “can you still hold me when I’m dysregulated?” That’s often the piece that feels hardest in real life.
✨ Let’s Talk Discipline (the real kind) ✨
Discipline isn’t about punishment. It’s about teaching. It’s the pause before reacting. It’s consistency over intensity. It’s helping kids learn what to do next time—not just what they did wrong. The word comes from one we know well: disciple. When we think of Jesus and His disciples, we think of teaching moments, never about power, control, or punishment. 👉 Discipline asks: • What skill is my child missing right now? • How can I guide instead of control? • Am I responding, or reacting? And let’s be honest—discipline is just as much about us as it is about them. Regulating ourselves first is often the hardest part. 💬 Reflection question: What’s one discipline strategy that’s working for your family right now—or one you’re trying to improve? (I’m working on a discipline masterclass driven by biblical principles. It’s going to be awesome!) Remember: You’re not failing if it’s hard. You’re parenting. 💛
1 like • Jan 25
I love this - how you frame discipline as teaching and regulation, not control — especially the reminder that consistency matters more than intensity. So much of the work I do with families starts with this exact shift — from control to guidance, from reaction to regulation. Posts like this help normalise that change in thinking. Thank you for sharing it. 💕
1 like • Jan 25
@Kayla Dixon and you!! 💕
Snow day!
The US is about to be hit with a major winter storm! For some of us here, that means lots of time indoors with littles(and bigs) who may be experiencing some cabin fever! Drop below your favorite indoor activity to keep kids entertained during a major snow storm! (Keep in mind, it’s good for brains to be bored too!)
1 like • Jan 25
For the little ones we love tuff trays — easy to set up, low pressure, and they can follow their own lead. Sensory bits, small world play, or just scooping and pouring usually keeps them happily busy for ages.
Welcome!
💬 Let’s Get to Know Each Other I’m so glad you’re here—and I’d love to learn more about you. This community was created to be a supportive, judgment-free space for parents and families, and that starts with connection. Parenting can feel isolating at times, and my hope is that no one here feels like they’re doing it alone. If you’re comfortable, introduce yourself in the comments and share a few of the following (answer as many or as few as you’d like): 1️⃣ What’s your name (or what you’d like to be called)? 2️⃣ How many kids do you have and what ages are they? 3️⃣ What’s one thing you’re currently loving about parenting? 4️⃣ What’s one area you’d love more support, tools, or encouragement in right now? 5️⃣ Just for fun: coffee, tea, or both? ☕🍵 There are no right or wrong answers here—only real ones. Thank you for being brave enough to show up, whether you’re sharing today or just quietly reading for now. You belong here, exactly as you are 🤍 I’m really looking forward to getting to know each of you and walking alongside you in this parenting journey. — Kayla Oh! And don’t forget to turn your notifications on so that you can stay plugged in!
1 like • Jan 24
Hi, I’m Ellie 👋 Mum of three here — deep in the juggle of kids, nervous systems, coffee, and trying to do better than yesterday ☕️ I’m really passionate about supporting mums, especially those parenting neurodivergent kids or feeling stretched, overwhelmed, or like they’re carrying a lot quietly. I’m here for connection, encouragement, and honest conversations — because motherhood can be beautiful and exhausting at the same time. And yes… coffee is absolutely non-negotiable.
0 likes • Jan 24
@Kayla Dixon Thankyou 🤗
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