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The L.O.V.E.D. Well Society

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Next Livestream & Check in
Welcome to all the new people! So glad you all are in the community 🥰 I know I haven’t streamed yet this week, been a little under the weather but I wanted to check in and see how many could join for a Monday evening stream at 9pm CST? I’m trying to find a regular time that works. Also, how are yall doing? Mentally, emotionally, physically, howeverly..? 👀
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Tuesday evening works best for me. I'm not too comfortable, emotionally, financially, right now... my rent is due, and folks are taking their merry time to pay me so I could handle that. But I'm keeping the faith that all shall be well, and all will be sorted soon.
Welcome to LOVED Well Society
Hi. I’m Christal. And I didn’t create this space because I have all the answers. I created it because I’ve lived the questions. A few years ago, I walked through divorce. Not just legally, but also the identity-shaking, self-trust-testing, “who even am I now?” kind. I had to learn how to let go with dignity. How to stop ignoring red flags. How to trust my intuition again. How to date without abandoning myself. How to believe I could still build healthy, secure love. And I realized something: There are so many high-functioning, emotionally aware adults rebuilding their lives after divorce… but we don’t always have spaces that match our maturity. This is not a chaos circle. This is not a venting room. This is not man-bashing or bitterness. This is a recalibration space. Inside The LOVED Well Society, we focus on: • Healing with dignity • Owning our standards • Dating wisely • Building secure, emotionally safe relationships We’re not desperate for love here. We’re intentional about it. You don’t have to be perfect. You don’t have to be fully healed. You just have to be willing to grow. If you’re rebuilding, re-entering the dating world, or refusing to repeat old patterns… You’re home. Now introduce yourself below: Where are you in your journey right now?
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Blessed Love. I am Derron Ellies, a musician with 33 years of experience as of this May. I sing, write and play the steelpan, Trinidad and Tobago's National Instrument. I was divorced in 2018, after being constantly gaslit and projected upon by my ex wife. She has since remarried, and I have finally been able to look back on that pain with a smile. There's still work to be done on myself, though. I'm still working out whether I'm truly comfortable with being by myself, and outside of romance... or whether I have to rebuild my trust in women as potential partners. The love is still here, in me. I know it. So a space like this is what I need to help me reset and rebuild, and I am happy to be here with you all.
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A musician, living and loving Life, fulfilling his purpose.

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Joined Apr 4, 2026