They think the calendar turning over will give them the discipline they couldn’t build all year. But here’s the truth → if you can’t control yourself now, winter, cold, dark mornings… you won’t magically do it when the fireworks go off. Discipline is built in the shadows. When it’s freezing outside. When your bed feels too warm. When no one’s watching. You don’t need a New Year’s resolution, you need a decision today. 💬 Comment below: What’s ONE habit you’re locking in this winter that will carry you into 2026 stronger?

Or maybe gladiator as we are here on the big man's page! 💞 1.Only surround yourself with people who lift you,surround your self with 9 clowns you will become the 10th.,surround yourself with 9 gladiators,you become the 10th. 2.stop worrying about other people,what they think,what they have,what they do.,unless these people are relevant,forget them in every way. 3.forgive yourself,don't dwell on what you did in the past.There are no saints here.to grow,you have to move on. 4.disipline,it's as much doing what you don't feel like as it is not doing what you do feel like,discipline is doing,and avoiding. 5.Carry yourself like a man,talk straight,say it how it is,but also be kind to those that deserve kindness,avoid conflict,unless necessary,you feel you have something to prove,but you made this up in your head.Walk away. 6.do not mistake kindness for weakness,you will learn a hard lesson.The kindest,nicest men I know,are also the most savage. 7.be kind to others but harsh on self.Enjoy the journey,the suffering and pain,the hunger,the tiredness,stress,it's all making you better.do not pray for an easy life,pray for the strength to ensure a difficult one (Bruce lee) 8.Stop overthinking,if your thoughts don't serve you,treat them like anything else,if something,or someone is not serving you positively,then it/they have to either change,or go. 9-You are stronger than you think,you just haven't tried yourself,or been tried.You need to earn your own respect,this can only be achieved with suffering. 10-Life is war,each day a battle,some you win,some you loose,but in the end,the outcome,that's in your hands.Will you leave this world the winner,or the loser of the war of life?

Defeat,that's optional.

Talkers,and doers,talk is cheap,graft in silence,the hardest work is done when no one is watching.embrace suffering,without it you will never know what you are capable of,and it is much more than you realise,make pain your friend,and comfort your enemy.And be nice,it costs nothing!

"Lions do not worry about the opinion of sheep" Have a blessed weekend all.