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21 contributions to The Unshrinkable Room
Why Setting "Realistic" Goals is Keeping You Mediocre (And How to Fix It)
First a very warm welcome to @Berna Biggs 🥳 I used to think I was good at setting goals. I was wrong. I recently watched a video with Dr. Benjamin Hardy and Myron Golden, and it completely shattered my mindset. Here is the core realization: I’ve been setting goals wrong my entire life. Most of us set Logical Goals. - I made $50k last year, so I'll aim for $60k this year. - I want to start a business in 5 years. The problem? If the current version of you knew how to get to your dream life, you’d already be living it. Logical goals don't force you to grow. They don't require you to transform. They just keep you stuck in what I call the "Pool of Mediocrity"... the zone where you’re just making small, incremental jumps that don't actually change the trajectory of your life. If you want a radically different life, you need an Impossible Goal. What is an Impossible Goal? It’s a goal so big that it forces you to completely break your current identity. It forces you to become somebody else because the current you literally cannot solve the problem. There are two ways to do this: 1. Think Way Bigger Instead of $60k, what if you aimed for $30 million? Why? Because your brain will justify whatever premise you give it. If you ask, "How do I get to $60k?", your brain looks for incremental ways. If you ask, "How do I get to $30M?", your brain is forced to look for exponential growth. 2. Collapse the Timeline Take your existing (logical) goal and cut the time in half. Or drastically. - Goal: Own a pro soccer team by age 55. - Impossible Goal: Own a pro soccer team by age 30. The "Why" Behind the Timeline Collapse: If you give yourself 30 years to become a millionaire, you will justify laziness. You’ll take days off because you have "plenty of time." If you give yourself 12 months, you have no time to waste. You are forced to change your habits, your friends, and your actions immediately. It’s terrifying. But it's the only way to level up.
Why Setting "Realistic" Goals is Keeping You Mediocre (And How to Fix It)
0 likes • 16d
We think "realistic" goals are safer. They're not. We're not protecting ourselves.
They say lock in from Sept 1 to Dec!
This place has been quiet. That changes today, and it starts with me. It's September 1. For the next 90 days I'm going to lock in again. No polish. No performance. I still hold the nine to five. What changed is I stopped trying to fix myself with a framework built for a brain nothing like mine. So I built my own. It's called Mental Wealth. Mental health gets you back to zero. Mental Wealth is everything you build above it. It's grounded in neuroscience, held up by people who carry what you carry, and it works. I'm not here to teach you from a stage. I'm here to do this beside you. Same room. Same 90 days. Same intention. Live, sell, and be. Without shrinking. No hustle worship. No performative wellness. Real conversations, real work, and a room where you never have to explain yourself. Your first move: Comment below with how you want to feel on December 1. Declare it!!! Freed. Light. Unbothered. Rich. Unrecognizable.?? Say it and claim it. I'll go first. Wealth-Free (I just made that up!) Warm welcome!!! @Amalia Savinescu @Pensri Shellabear @Bonnie Mick
They say lock in from Sept 1 to Dec!
1 like • Sep 1
Ah, yes, the most important business quarter of the year. How are things with work, Lyds?
0 likes • Sep 1
@Lydie Molina Haha, you do. 😘 Whatcha sellin"?
Feb 3 • 
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Sabrina says: Do Tik Tok!
Please watch the Youtube video for the full hands-on tutorial. (These are her words) 1. Why Tiktok? I agree with Gary Vee on this one… 🤡Tiktok remains the #1 social platform in the world and the only platform where A SINGLE post can dramatically transform your life/business overnight.🤡 It's also the best platform for new creators because you don't get punished for posting multiple times per day. This means you can post multiple times daily, collecting the data you need faster to iterate on what's working. TikTok teaches you how to be a good creator faster than if you were to start on other platforms. Because you get more reps in. More feedback, faster. So you can double down on what’s working. And Tiktok does not care how many current followers you have. Every single post gets a fair shot at virality, even if you have ZERO followers today. 2. Which AI Tool Should I Use? It does NOT matter which AI tool you use. There is no right one. Honestly, you don’t need AI when you’re just starting out. 🤡The most important thing is consistency over a long time horizon. I don’t want to recommend any specific AI tool and imply it guarantees success.🤡 In my YouTube tutorial, I’ll show you how to use ChatGPT for free to help write hooks and scripts. But it is NOT a magic bullet. You must still put in the work, lots of trial and error, pushing through moments of self-doubt. However, I assure you it is 1000% worth it. My background is tech and I laughed off “influencer” stuff for a long time. But I was wrong. Creating content is an incredible source of leverage (for my own projects) and an incredible opportunity to serve/teach millions of people around the world. 3. But what if my audience isn’t on TikTok? I still encourage starting with TikTok even if you don’t think your audience is on it because of question #1 one above. 🤡 TikTok teaches you to be a good content creator faster than any other platform.🤡With that said, you’re probably mistaken believing nobody in your audience is on TikTok.
1 like • Jul 15
I think that's been my biggest challenge with any content at all. Seeing pathetic progress as absolutely zero results and being too discouraged to continue because of it. I also hate doing vieo more than any other thing alive. Writing though, that's my jam. But it feels like people just don't reat anymore. Guilty of it myself. If I get an email more than on sentence long, I delete it immediately, even if it's from my bank.🤣 I reserve all reading for real books the first couple hours of my morning.
0 likes • Jul 18
@Lydie Molina Ohh, is it a magical place you think? I've never read or seen a thing about it. Heard of it though. It's good?
Matt D'Avella @mattdavella • 4.04M subscribers (YT) • 467 videos
He wrote & it's too raw and interesting not to share: Hey— 32-hours of travel and 14 re-watches of Moana later, and we finally made it back to Sydney— another harrowing trip across the world to visit my family in the books. Keeping two kids and two adults contained in three tiny airplane seats took a heroic effort. Let's just say I got side-eyed by a lot of passengers for my decision to let our toddler crawl barefoot back-and-forth to the bathroom. As amazing as it was to spend time with family, it feels good to be back home. But I’ve been having a problem ever since. It's a problem I've faced off and on as a creator ever since I started, especially after taking a break. 𝗜𝘁 𝗳𝗲𝗲𝗹𝘀 𝗶𝗺𝗽𝗼𝘀𝘀𝗶𝗯𝗹𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝗴𝗲𝘁 𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗿𝘁𝗲𝗱 𝗮𝗴𝗮𝗶𝗻. On a scale of self-doubt to self-confidence, I'm somewhere beyond self-doubt and deep into self-destruction. My recent texts to Nat pretty much sum it up: "𝗕𝗹𝗮𝗵, 𝗜'𝗺 𝗶𝗻 𝘀𝘂𝗰𝗵 𝗮 𝗿𝘂𝘁. 𝗜 𝗳𝗲𝗲𝗹 𝗹𝗶𝗸𝗲 𝗜'𝗺 𝘀𝘁𝘂𝗰𝗸 𝗶𝗻 𝗾𝘂𝗶𝗰𝗸𝘀𝗮𝗻𝗱. 𝗟𝗶𝗸𝗲 𝗜 𝘄𝗮𝗻𝘁 𝘁𝗼 𝗺𝗼𝘃𝗲, 𝗯𝘂𝘁 𝗜 𝗰𝗮𝗻'𝘁." I went on to dump all my feelings on her. It feels like I've put out nothing in months. No social content, no podcasts, very few YouTube videos. And I'm uninspired by the current video I'm working on, which is now three days past deadline. The worst part: it doesn't even feel like it matches the direction I want to take the channel, so finishing the last few hours of editing feels like torture. But that’s just the starter. The main course is about to be served: the spiral. It starts with frustration. Then a few others join the party: anxiety, envy, self-pity... And regret. I've been thinking about the past decade since starting my YouTube channel and all the things I wish I'd done differently. There were so many opportunities I missed and decisions I should (or shouldn’t) have made. I should have focused more on making better videos. I shouldn't have hired so many people. Back then I was one of YouTube’s “Creators on the Rise” (I’ve got a screenshot on an old hard drive to prove it). Now it feels like I’m just a washed-up creator, repeating the same old lines into a different camera.
Matt D'Avella @mattdavella • 4.04M subscribers (YT) • 467 videos
1 like • Jul 1
@Lydie Molina I might've misread that, Your best post was in my community? I've missed you. A lot. The community felt like a family last year.
0 likes • Jul 1
@Lydie Molina Oh, it was a dream! I loved every second of that! I feel like my community I had to abandon everyone and everyone left, too. We're like some ghost ship now. 😔 All that constant work every single day for nothing.
The Brutal Truth: That One Skill That Will Make You Wealthy
So what is the one skill that will actually make you wealthy? Communication and persuasion. Ask any self-made millionaire and they will admit a harsh truth. Being great at one skill beats being average at a dozen. In fact, 120 ultra successful people were asked which single skill had the biggest impact on your success. Every one of them gave the same answer. Sales and persuasion. Why? 🆘 Because if you cannot convince others, you cannot close clients. You cannot inspire your team. You cannot attract investors. Nothing happens until a sale is made. Communication is the ultimate wealth building skill. 😄 Warren Buffett flat out says that improving your ability to communicate in writing and speaking can increase your value by 50% instantly. 😄 Richard Branson, billionaire founder of Virgin, calls communication the most important skill any leader can possess. It makes the world go round by allowing you to share ideas and inspire action. ➡️ And research backs this up. 85% of your success comes from your people skills. Your communication, your negotiating, your leading. Only 15% comes from technical knowledge. You could be a genius coder or a brilliant inventor. But if you cannot convey your vision or persuade others to join you, your impact and your income will be limited. So what one skill should you learn? Start with a skill that multiplies all others. Communication. This means mastering how to sell, how to speak, how to write, and how to listen. Every entrepreneur needs to sell. Whether it is selling your product, your business plan, or simply selling yourself and your ideas. 😄 Even billionaire Mark Cuban stresses that knowing how to sell was key to his success. 😄 And finance guru Robert Kiyosaki said the number one skill of an entrepreneur is the ability to sell. Not just products, but yourself and your vision. The bottom line is your net worth is tied directly to your communication skills. If you hone the art of persuasion, doors open. Clients say yes. Investors sign on. Employees rally behind your mission. It is the force multiplier for your wealth.
The Brutal Truth: That One Skill That Will Make You Wealthy
1 like • Mar 19
It's the #1 thing I want to learn this year. It's why I took a job at a fine art gallery when it would have been the last thing I'd want to do. I'd have rather gone back into construction or waitressing. But it's extremely uncomfortable, it requires pushing me to learn to sell, and lots of rejection. So I know I need it.
1 like • Mar 26
@Lydie Molina I'm telling you, Lydie, I'm leaning hard into this. Lack of skills and poor execution got me into this. The only way out of it is trying as hard as possible.
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