More wins in my world. I do feel at times quite behind. Behind as a recovering person. My wins so often seem to me small things, and things I "should" have learned when I was a younger man. But, I did not, and I'm learning now. The ladt relationship i had 2 years ago, it ended Iike many others. I had no ability to argue. I responded like the only child I used to be having the 2 adults he depended on yelling and fighting, and ignoring the child.... Any way, I had never really learned that I coukd have an argument, but still like or love the person who upset me. I just didn't know behaviour and human could be seen as different. So my win in the last day or 2 was having an argument, staying with it (not getting angry back, and not suppressing and backingvdown), and keeping at it till there was resolution. It was a bank manager , and I had not received a key email so I fronted up expecting page A, but she was on page G , and I got confused and upset. She got defensive and overbearing. I held my self, and tried to talk it through, not run and not get petulant. I managed to hang in and the facts became clearer and clearer, and in the end she almost apologiesed and was pleased we had sorted it out. For me ...fucking win! One of tge first times I have been able to tolerate the emotion in me in an argument and stuck with it ...here's to many more!