Tomorrow is my late partner’s birthday. She would have been 51. And every year, I try to do something that gives back. Not in a big, performative way… just in a way that feels right. Because I’ve learned this in my own life—the only way I’ve been able to change my grief… is by turning it into something that helps someone else. So this year, for her 51st birthday, I’m doing something to help you all find Purpose in your Pain. I’m opening up the solo course to become a grief coach for $51. This is your opportunity to become a globally certified grief coach, accredited in 82 countries. But more than that… this is personal for me. This is my gift to Terry. Because the way I keep her alive in my life isn’t by holding onto the past…it’s by continuing to do something meaningful with what we went through. And part of that is helping more people understand this: Grief is not the end of your story. You can grieve with more love than pain.You can rebuild meaning.You can create a new vision for your life, even after loss. And sometimes… the way we do that is by helping someone else find their way through it too. So if you’ve felt that pull… even a little… Come join us. The Secret to Living IS Giving.... Click the link below to join us as a global grief educator. Let’s do something meaningful with this 🤍. And no- you're not too early in your grief to be a Grief Educator/Coach. This course will help you heal too. Link: https://mastergrief.com/terrybirthday Warmly, T

I had a 3 monthly care plan review with a nurse yesterday for Eils He thanked me for coming in each day to assist Eils with feeding her lunch and staff thank me often. I AM NOT there helping them out like a volunteer. I am there to be with Eils and provide the least I can still do for her and then spend time with her, holding her hand, cuddling her and letting her know much I love her. Do they see it as an obligation? This is the furthest from the truth for me. I wish, everyday that I could have her at home with me. I know they mean well, they care about Eils and all the residents but how they not see that I'm there everyday because I love her with all of me.

My little crew...honored my Aunt, our most recent angel by doing the dishes after dinner as she always did, about 30 people for dinner. Then my littles came to visit 💙💙💙