I decided that I want to focus for now more on my social and relationship life as it's these areas where I feel the most urgency to improve. I think working on these area will be really helpful in other areas like sales, business and career too. I'm still working for the dating coach company Modern Success, but now as a Marketing Assistant editing podcast videos, competitor research, creating hooks for reels and tech related work. Right now I'm working part time, and I have flexible schedule which I like. This is time I actually have control of my time unlike my previous company. I do like this role more because it's more fun and I it's more suited for me. Also, they said eventually when they have more work for me they can give me a full-time income. The full-time income will be enough for me to be able to move out of my parents. As being part of the team, they gave me access to their VIP dating program, so been going through it's be really useful. They got weekly coaching calls for aspect of dating. Also, there are zoom calls multiples a week with models where I can practice having conversations and flirting with them and get feedback, which I find very helpful to improve my conversation and flirting skills. Right now my goal is to go out a lot more often every week to social gatherings including salsa/bachata classes, yoga, seminars, and going out with friends, especially on Friday and Saturdays, so I can meet people, connect, socialise and practice my communications skills. I want to make more friends especially in London where I'm currently living and also start going more dates. I want be able to host my own events, social gatherings and parties where I can invite people in London and everywhere else I go travelling. Also, would love to travel more often and everyone in Game of Life the community. Would be cool too to have more female friends too who live in London. Right now, locally I only have male friends and female acquaintances, but would awesome to have close female friends nearby who can invite out just to socialise, events, have fun. In the past, I used to believe in the past men and women can't be just friends, but it's not true. Also, a female friend could introduce me to her girl friends who I might end up dating lol.

I went to Rome last week from 20th to 24th September, with my friend and business partner Rupin who is a dating coach to film content, work on my confidence, also helped coach a client. I grew a lot and learnt a lot during my 5 days there. Also manifested visiting a lot of places I dreamed of including the Colosseum, Pantheon and Roman Forum. Having explored Rome, the ancient ruins, interacted with Italian people I can say the "Rome is the city of love, not Paris". Lots of cool things happened during the my trip: - Got to go inside Pantheon and see the beautiful interior with mosaics and the massive dome ceiling. Was really great seeing this nearly 2000 year old building still standing and being used. - Visiting the Colosseum. When I went inside I felt like I was travelling back in time to Rome. Also, realisation I'm actually here, I'm manifested this. - Going to the Trevi fountain, throwing a coin and making a wish. - A spontaneous date: Rupin pushed me to approach a woman sitting at the restaurant having pizza. I went up to her, had a conversation, asked what she thought of the pizza, then she offered me some pizza and I ended sitting down with her and connecting. Then I spent the next few hours exploring Rome with her and then had some gelato. - I was sitting by myself at the Pantheon, I heard a big family sitting next me speaking in filipino. I asked if they are filipino, then they said yes. They were on vacation. We had a nice conversation, and they liked me and and the father ended up setting me up and with their daughter (26) haha, and she asked for my instagram and we are texting now. - Got to see my friend Rupin interact and flirt with women. Also, helped him film his "proposal" to a woman he met at the hostel we were at lol. - Got to cook pasta from scratch at the hostel with the help of our Italian friend. It was so simple and delicious. Just pasta, tomatoes, garlic, olive oil and basil. The biggest I would say is I learnt to love myself more and I feel more confident from within. I learnt an important lesson that you can't shame yourself to confidence, you can only love yourself so much it results in confidence.

I grew up in a village with 300 people. It is fair to say that I was always surrounded by nature. Even my kindergarten was a “Waldkindergarten,” meaning “forest kindergarten.” There are so many secrets hidden in nature. My favourite is the concept of emergence, which also connects to the Gaia hypothesis. Let me explain: Consider an ant colony. Each ant has a specific role. Some gather food, others build the nest, and another group defends the colony. Alone, an individual ant couldn’t survive. But as part of a greater whole, it can thrive. Families work the same way. Each member has a role, and together, we achieve more than we could achieve alone. It doesn’t stop at a single family or a single colony. Both are part of an even greater system. But only humans are aware of that. We know that we are part of a family. This family is part of a country which is part of humanity. The better we understand this emergence, the more value we can provide. That is how 1+1 can be 11 or even 111. By understanding our place in the system, we can change the system. That is why I believe in the power of education. If one of us learns, we all learn. Let's learn together from nature.

Last Friday, I got removed from my job as an appointment setter by my CEO. The reason was that I was booking lots of calls, but all my calls ended up as no-shows. And most of the prospects who were booked and didn't show up to their sales calls were booked by me, so they took me off the sales team. They said they liked my work ethic, I was doing the most dials, but they don't think the dating niche is good fit for my personality. The good news is that because of my work ethic, they are not actually firing me, they want to move me to the marketing department instead and assist the chief marketing officer. Instead of doing sales over the phone, I will be doing more techy stuff like editing their podcast videos and helping manage the CRM. I do like that I'm working in the marketing department.. What's interesting about this is that they removed me from the appointment setter position on the exact day, I was going to Amsterdam. Weeks before, I was wondering about going to Amsterdam, because I would still need to work and do phone calls while travelling, and thought would I be able to manage it. I visualised that I can somehow work for them, and still be able to travel and have more flexibiltiy.. Then on the day I actually travelled, they remove ,me and then for few days at Amsterdam I didn't need to work, as they still have get me setup for my new role.

My CEO did a podcast today with Tony Robbin’s top sales man who made nine figures all by himself, and asked my team to watch. Thought I’d share it as it has lots of value.