Update October 2024 - Gonna focus more on my social and relationship areas

I decided that I want to focus for now more on my social and relationship life as it's these areas where I feel the most urgency to improve. I think working on these area will be really helpful in other areas like sales, business and career too.

I'm still working for the dating coach company Modern Success, but now as a Marketing Assistant editing podcast videos, competitor research, creating hooks for reels and tech related work.

Right now I'm working part time, and I have flexible schedule which I like. This is time I actually have control of my time unlike my previous company. I do like this role more because it's more fun and I it's more suited for me. Also, they said eventually when they have more work for me they can give me a full-time income. The full-time income will be enough for me to be able to move out of my parents.

As being part of the team, they gave me access to their VIP dating program, so been going through it's be really useful. They got weekly coaching calls for aspect of dating. Also, there are zoom calls multiples a week with models where I can practice having conversations and flirting with them and get feedback, which I find very helpful to improve my conversation and flirting skills.

Right now my goal is to go out a lot more often every week to social gatherings including salsa/bachata classes, yoga, seminars, and going out with friends, especially on Friday and Saturdays, so I can meet people, connect, socialise and practice my communications skills. I want to make more friends especially in London where I'm currently living and also start going more dates. I want be able to host my own events, social gatherings and parties where I can invite people in London and everywhere else I go travelling. Also, would love to travel more often and everyone in Game of Life the community.

Would be cool too to have more female friends too who live in London. Right now, locally I only have male friends and female acquaintances, but would awesome to have close female friends nearby who can invite out just to socialise, events, have fun. In the past, I used to believe in the past men and women can't be just friends, but it's not true. Also, a female friend could introduce me to her girl friends who I might end up dating lol.

Also, I want to get better at doing cold approach, which is basically approaching and starting conversation with a woman you don't know in public. I've have had few dates before this way, for example in Rome. I feel like doing this will improve my confidence the most, as I will have to get out of my comfort zone the most and face lots of rejection lol. I notice too that when I do this, I feel more confident in normal social situations and my interactions are better there too.

Additionally, I decided to also use online dating as well to meet women. I felt resistant to doing online dating, because I thought the it's a low quality way to meet people. Also, I thought it didn't work, because I barely got matches, but starting to implement what I learn including choosing better photos and improving my profile I'm starting to get more matches. I've decided I'm still going to use it, because I want to be open to all opportunities out there, and people have met through it.

This a good meditation I've been listening too as well. Turns you into a sexy bastard lol

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1Qtfcnp72ZWqNSDe2lBjQiUge37GMxIxL/view?usp=sharing

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