As I sit here and work in my car. I get so much done. I feel safe, confined and held. I can't wonder in my house- start a load of laundry, wipe a counter or make myself a snack and then grab a diet coke. But- here is the thing.. It actually relaxes me to work in a small space like my car. Brought me to this thought. We actually LOVE boundaries. Or containers. Babies love to be swaddled- you know when you unswaddle them and the do the starfish, free falling scare. Hahaha. That's our nervous systems when we are given too much too soon. - Kids thrive with clear limits — structure makes them feel safe to explore inside the space you’ve created. - Animals like colts or horses do better in smaller pens when they’re young — too much space too soon overwhelms them. Boundaries don’t suffocate you. They hold you steady so you can expand from a place of safety, clarity, and readiness. So let's DIVE IN> 1. Why We Resist Boundaries We’re taught that “freedom” means no rules, no limits, no one telling me what to do. So the second someone talks about boundaries, our nervous system is like: nope, don’t fence me in. But here’s the truth: when you’re floating around with zero edges, it doesn’t feel like freedom — it feels like chaos. It feels like free-falling with no net. And your body will always crave something to hold onto. 2. Reframe Boundaries as Safety Look at babies — they scream until you swaddle them. Why? Because the tight little wrap signals, “You’re safe. You’re held.” Look at kids — the moment you give them clear rules, they actually relax. Their behavior improves. Because someone drew the edges. They know where the yes is and where the no is. Even animals know this. Colts thrive in smaller pens. They learn, they grow, they get stronger before you let them run wild. >>Even As Adults: And here’s the wild part — it never really leaves us. When we’re overwhelmed, scared, or sad… what do we instinctively do? We curl up. We pull our knees into our chest. We go fetal.

I wanted a simple way to help my boys build identity and confidence without heavy lectures. So we started a 3-minute rhythm: >>Read 2 short scriptures>> Write 3 gratitudes (left hand, past tense) At first, they grumbled. But within days, I could feel the shift—calmer, more confident, more grounded. Each week I’ll share a theme you can use word-for-word or adapt for your home. No pressure. No perfection. Just a daily practice of shaping strong, grounded kids—one morning at a time. Check out the new Gratitude Series in the classroom — a simple 3-minute rhythm of scripture + gratitude (left-hand, past tense) to help your kids anchor in truth, build confidence, and shape identity before the world tells them who to be. 💛

Hi Beauties, This is for you if: - You want to start writing but don’t know where to begin - You don’t have an offer (yet) but know you’re meant to be sharing something - You get stuck halfway through and think: “Wait what was I even saying??” - You want to write things that feel honest, real, and actually sound like you Listen — I don’t write emails or posts from strategy.I write from alignment. From truth.But I also have ADHD... so without a flow? One second I’m writing an email…Next thing you know, I’m deep-diving my human design chart and rewriting my grocery list. So I made a structure — one that lets me write quickly, clearly, and confidently — without editing my soul out of it. And now I’m giving it to you. MAGNETIC EMAILS: Sell From the Heart — Without Playing Small or Playing Games Yes, it’s called “Emails” — but this flow works for anything: - A Substack post - A vulnerable Facebook share - Your first sales page - Even that thing you’re scared to say out loud but know you need to If you want to build confidence in your writing, share what’s real, and not feel like a mess every time you sit down to write… >>You can download it below! It’s free. No pitch. Just something that helps. And don’t overthink it — even if you have nothing to sell. You’re allowed to start expressing yourself now. You don’t need a niche. You don’t need a product. You just need a message worth sharing — and a way to get it out. Go get it. You’ll love it. XXO- Britt

Hi! I am Britt! Breadwinner is a space for women with soft hearts, strong backs, and no interest in playing small.She runs a home. Leads with spirit. Moves money. Raises humans. Bakes bread. She’s not here to fit a niche — she is the infrastructure. This isn’t a business Skool. Or a mom group. Or a spiritual circle. It's all of it — because she’s all of it. Built for the self-led woman who does it all — and finally has a space that sees it. We make it work like you, for you. When you are guided to move — that's your right move.

The only other way to rewire your brain besides hypnosis? Repetition. That’s it. That’s the magic. You don’t “think your way” into a new life—you train your subconscious to believe something different… until it becomes your default setting. And here’s the truth:Saying “I’m so sick of this” won’t change a thing.Complaining just reinforces the old reality you’re desperate to escape. Want a new reality?You speak it. You write it. You live like it’s already yours—over and over—until your brain has no choice but to believe you. Rewiring your brain works like traffic signals. If someone’s blinker is on, they’re telling you, “I’m coming over.”But if their passenger door is wide open? You’re not taking them seriously — the signals don’t match. Your subconscious is the same way. You can say “I’m ready for more money” all day long…but if your thoughts, actions, and energy scream “I’m broke, stressed, and in survival mode,” your brain isn’t buying it. You’ve got to send the same clear signal — over and over — until it’s undeniable.That’s how repetition rewires you. Let me know how this lands for you!