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7 contributions to Society of Ordinary Gents
Styling my new/1st scarf
Did I go any where today, is it really this cold in TX, am I wearing actually pants and not just shorts? No×3. I just really wanted an excuse to post an outfit of the day and try to tie a scarf :)
Styling my new/1st scarf
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I bought my first "nice" scarf last year, a 100% cashmere scarf I got on a steal from Macy's during a massive post-winter sale. I wore that thing whenever I could last year but I'm really looking forward to wearing it through this fall/winter season. I usually drape it underneath a topcoat, but I really like the slightly off-center look of the Parisian knot in more casual outfits. You look great!
Simple but Important Impacts
I saw this list today of 10 things someone can do that make a big impact and thought it was worth sharing. You would think this should just be innate in people but sadly it’s not. I will say I agree with it all and I do try my best to do all 10. I think it is so important to be present in life and in our everyday people interactions.
Simple but Important Impacts
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I make a concerted effort to do almost all of these things, all of which were tips in the great book How To Win Friends and Influence People, which is a great read. Obviously, the texting and phone usage didn't exist back then, but the basic principles still apply. It's been a decade, I think it's time to read it again. My biggest challenge is how my anxiety makes me so excitable that I always want to talk and race through conversations - I always have to force myself to slow down. It's not that easy for me.
What are the Generations? (Post from Scott)
There are so many "generations" it is hard for us "boomers" to keep up. Here is a quick reference guide. - The Greatest Generation (born 1901-1927): - The Silent Generation (born 1928-1945): - Baby Boomers (born 1946-1964): - Generation X (born 1965-1980): - Millennials (born 1981-1996): - Generation Z (born 1997-2012): - Generation Alpha (born 2013-2025): - Generation Beta (born 2025-2039):
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@Al Voss roamed the Earth during the Cretaceous Period as a young lad. As he grew up, he stabbed Caesar, told the Trojans the horse looks perfectly safe and let it in, spilled coffee on the Magna Carta, and accidentally sunk the Lusitania which led to all sorts of craziness. He's calmed down these days.
Your Answer to the Question... (Post from Scott)
Almost every member of the Society that joined on or after May 11th had to answer the screening question, "Who is your favorite gentleman role model, real of fictional? Why?" The answers were as varied as the members. With only so many characters available the answers had to be fairly short. This is your opportunity to expand upon your answer and why. Even if your "role model" has been mentioned by someone else, the Society would like to know your reasons for choosing that person. Go!
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All my classic gentleman inspiration comes from actors like Jimmy Stewart, James Cagey, Humphrey Bogart, Edward G. Robinson, and Cary Grant - maybe even a bit of Douglas Fairbanks Sr. and John Barrymore. As for modern influence, which is much harder to find, I am a big fan of WWE wrestler and current world champion Cody Rhodes. I just find his style impeccable. It's classic and timeless, and but also daring and a bit brash. Now if only I had the physique to match!
Two Observations on Labels and Letters (Post from Scott)
As most of you may have noticed, "ordinary" and "gentlemen" are in the name of the Society. The two labels are intentional. Ordinary: of a kind to be expected in the normal order of events. What is commonplace or standard. For members of the Society, being a gentleman or gentlelady is the expected norm, it is the common mode of behavior, not the uncommon. It is the ordinary man or woman that does extraordinary deeds in times of trouble. Gentleman: a chivalrous, courteous, or honorable man. And in the Society a gentleman or gentlelady also exhibits the traits of honor, civility, discipline, and empathy. As a member of The Society of Ordinary Gentlemen we are "labeling" ourselves with certain traits and the desire to nourish those traits within our community. In recent post a few members "labeled" themselves using language that was less than flattering. While meant in jest, the use of unflattering language regarding oneself plants "seeds" of thought, which can lead to actions which are not appropriate for a lady or gentleman. While labeling themselves, they also used the annoying use of **** instead of the correct letters to "mask" the words being used. If I type A**hole or c**t in an effort to use words that I wouldn't use in polite conversation at the dinner table with children present, does it in anyway "mask" the words? No, it doesn't. Everyone who read the previous sentence read "Asshole" or cunt" even with the self-censoring asterisk. If you are going to use foul language, us it with complete sentences and spell the words. There are no fucking children here! As you can see, I used foul language to make a point, and I didn't censor the words. While everyone can be an asshole, or a cunt, or a bitch, or a whatever at times, I urge you to not attach those labels to yourself, or if you choose to do so for comic effect, do it rarely.
Two Observations on Labels and Letters (Post from Scott)
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This got better the further I kept reading.
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Brian Lambrecht
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I'm a PR manager from Chicago, now living in Nashville, who had to reinvent himself in his life this past year. This group is part of that journey.

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