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Let me ask you something most men won't admit out loud.
How much is alcohol actually costing you? Not in dollars. In results. I see it constantly. Men in this community training hard, eating reasonably well, doing everything right , and then wondering why the scale isn't moving, why recovery feels off, why sleep isn't restoring them. A lot of the time the answer is in the glass. Alcohol after 40 hits differently. It disrupts your sleep architecture, you might be in bed eight hours and still waking up unrecovered. It spikes inflammation, which is already elevated as we age. It tanks testosterone. It slows metabolism. And it makes every single nutritional decision harder the next day. I'm not here to tell you never to enjoy yourself. That's not the Built Different message. But I am telling you to be honest with yourself about what it's actually doing to your results. I cut it out. Not because someone told me to, because I did the experiment myself and the difference in my recovery, my sleep, my energy, and my body composition was not subtle. That's the data. What you do with it is your choice. Be honest with me, how often are you drinking, and do you think it's affecting your progress more than you're willing to admit? Drop it below. No judgment in here. Just honesty. 👇
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@Carsten Breum no. I’m very strict on what I consume. No alcohol, no sugar, no breads, cakes, sweets. No deep fried foods or cured meats. Low carb but not Keto.
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@Carsten Breum I agree everyone should eat/drink what they want. Most parents limit kids intake of sweets and make them eat their vegetables. That’s a parent’s responsibility. But I have family who let their kids choose food and the results are overweight kids. But I do believe adults should eat what suits them. My wife has been very accommodating to my restrictive diet. I’ve always told her “you eat what you want and I’ll eat what I want.” She makes a batch of chicken (no added ingredients, no oil) and roasted vegetables that I eat each night. I think the real issue is pressure from others to drink alcohol socially and eat the foods they prepare or eat the cake at the birthday party.
Let's do this!
Hey there all! I'm new to the community and look forward to our journey together
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@Clay Cleaver welcome brother! I see you are a fellow aviator! 👍
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@Clay Cleaver I love a clean machine. I make sure our crew washes the tail from carbon build up every third flight. Get all the bugs off the nose and windscreen after every flight. I started out as a helicopter Crewchief at 18 and took pride in my aircraft.
Muscle Groups
I tend to hit certain muscle groups at least 3 times a week. I am curious how others schedule their workouts for various areas (chest, back, shoulders, biceps, triceps, legs, etc)?
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@Russell Bauer i do a three day rotation: Day 1: biceps/triceps Day 2: chest/shoulders Day 3: lats/legs Then start back at day 1. Everyday is abs day. Also cardio every day. I do a workout everyday. This works for me.
Push through
Hey guy, just want encourage you all. So many times this week I didn’t want work out. I had to tell myself push through, even though you don’t feel like it. I am determined to go forward rather than backwards.
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@Dan Weller yesterday I had a great workout yesterday. Felt great! Today was a different story. I had to focus on completing my full sets. It would have been very easy to call it and get breakfast. But anytime I feel that way I think of how I would view throwing in the towel later that day. I know I would beat myself up. So I focus and dig deep and finish. Very rewarding later to eat a full breakfast!
Sleep.
I want to talk about the thing most men in this community are not taking seriously enough. Sleep. Not your training. Not your diet. Sleep. I used to have sleep apnea. I was overweight, stressed, and running on fumes. I thought that was just what life felt like after 40. I was wrong. It was what poor recovery felt like, and I was doing it to myself. Here's what I do now. Eyes covered. Mouth taped. Phone down well before I get into bed. I look like a monster, and I wake up recovered. That's the trade I'll take every single time. After 40, your body does not recover the way it used to. That is not negotiable. What you can control is how seriously you protect the window where recovery actually happens. No supplement, no training program, no diet is going to outwork broken sleep. I don't care how perfect your sessions are. If you're sleeping five hours, waking up in the night, or going to bed with your brain still running, you are undermining everything else you're doing. Bad night's sleep? I still go to the gym. But I pull back on the gas. I don't beat myself up about it. I do what I can and I protect tomorrow's sleep even harder. That's the discipline most men ignore. And it's costing them more than they realise. How many hours are you actually sleeping, and is recovery something you're treating as seriously as your training? Drop it below. 👇
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My sleep pattern changed once I hit 60. I do not typically sleep 7 or 8 hours any longer. 5 to 6 on average now. I usually fall asleep as soon as my head hits the pillow. No screens in the bedroom, eye mask, mouth tape, water cup, overhead fan on, and thermostat at 72 degrees. I only sleep with a sheet on. My wife has all the blankets, quilt, and 4 pillows on top of her! Some people like white noise to sleep. I prefer it quiet.
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@James Giannini that sounds miserable. Sorry to hear you are dealing with that. Everyone needs some decent sleep. A touchy subject, but maybe you are depressed? I went through a bout of depression after retiring from the military. The thing is I did not recognize it as depression. Only after working issues out with a therapist did I come out of it. Mental health is just as important as physical health! So many issues can affect your mental health: work, relationships, family history, physical condition. Illness, etc. A lot of men do not want to seek counseling, but it may be exactly what they need. Mental health counseling was the kiss of death for an Army career when I was in. I think much has changed since then.
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Bill Quistorf
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73 y.o lifting since age 13. Retired Army Officer/pilot, retired Sheriff’s Deputy/Chief Pilot. Currently Volunteer Chief Pilot for the agency.

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