On Removing a Villager - The Values of Watchfulness and Community
Today, I had to do something that I've never had to do in the Village before: remove a member who was an actual active member of the community. Sure, I've removed all kinds of spammers and scammers, but this was different. This individual was not overtly villainous. He would try to offer support and advice, and he definitely meant well. Unfortunately, he would often offer this advice forcefully, aggressively, and when not asked for it. He would speak out of turn in events, disrupt the conversation, and distract my attention from serving the audience. But that's just a different way to behaving, so I tried to deal with it as such, sharing my concerns and helping him to fit in better. But today, it became clear that this individual is not just quirky, but potentially disruptive and harmful. He informed me that he helped 5-7 figure entrepreneurs become 7-8 figure, which implies that he could help a beginner (5-figure) reach multimillion dollar success. As I sought more detail and clarity, his answers became more evasive and, well, frankly, weird. He claimed an 8-figure net worth, but when pressed for details discussed acting roles in movies he was not in, and spiritual alignment to flows of income. He seemed to imply it was "energetic" wealth or something, but I couldn't understand what he was trying to explain. I started to recognize the patterns of a Grifter (or perhaps a Leech if he didn't realize what he was doing) in both his comments and his business. So, I addressed it directly... I explained that I was considering removing him from the Village and all related programs, and asked him to explain, clearly, in plain language what he meant. His response was to send me a ChatGPT analysis that claimed that his archetype was "Jesus The Christ." At this point, I concluded that he was more of a negative influence than a positive, and informed him that he was invited to find success outside of the Village. He then claimed that I was acting as a "villain" and compromising my own Villager Values. Of course, that is something I take quite seriously, so I went back to look at the 10 Villager Values to see what applied.