So Glad... I Banned a Person for the First Time
LIVE streaming has been wonderful. I optimized the time-to-first-video-connection metric to the absolute maximum. But I also opened myself and the community to attack. Just when I was wrapping up my day and was going to bed, with my eyelids heavy and legs sore, one person had prepared to use LIVE as a way to directly sell to me. It was clear from the very start that he wasn't here for the community. Despite fatigue, I did my smoking nunchucks show for him, and gave him a warm welcome. He made his first move. He questioned immediately, asking me the purpose and meaning behind what I do. He started to frame my identity as somebody who needed to monetize my members right now. I am fine with monetization and I'm absolutely a believer of beautiful money. But he never talked anything about Path of the Dragon. That pissed me off. I would not criticize him on LIVE call, because any negative emotion I showed could have been video-taped by him and used out-of-conext. I thought I could kill him with kindness, symbolically of course When he said that I was gathering a bunch of people and trying to be a master for them, I replied that I learned from everybody, including him. After failing at framing me in a sales call interaction, he talked about his childhood dream for Shaolin monks who can do handstands with their fingers. He was trying to search for common-ground connections. I redirected the conversation back to what he had done and planned to accomplish that goal. He then moved on to talking about chess, migrating to Mars, and about owning a planet. He tried to probe information by suggesting that I looked like I was very well off. At the same time he talked about how hard it was to make money as immigrants despite US being a gold mine. Finally he asked me to join his community. I asked him how he got his members. He told me he paid for members. He paused for my reaction. He then said it was ads. But I suspect that he really meant bots and was trying to see if I was interested. And when I showed disinterest, he then tried to play it cool and lied about real human beings in the group.