When the temptations are too strong to handle
I went to a men's conference this past weekend, and it really opened up my eyes of what I've been missing out on all of these years. A pastor led the conference, and with his 35 years of experience leading ministries, building orphanages and spreading God's word, he articulated things that made so much sense. One of the biggest topics he hit on was on the subject of temptation, and how easily men can be so consumed by it. Temptations can lead to destroyed relationships, bankruptcy, addiction, spiritual (and sometimes physical) death. And it's something literally everyone faces. I know what tempts me the most. I know what my mind wants to default to when I'm feeling weak, isolated, and in private. And whenever I give in to those temptations, the very next set of feelings I get are shame and guilt. For anyone reading this: more than likely there are temptations in your life that you need to battle with every day. Even if it's the smallest thing. But those small things can compound into something sinister and wicked, to the point of no return. So if you find yourself easily giving into temptation, whether that's through alcoholism, doomscrolling on social media, p*rnography, video games, gambling, or anything—you can use these steps to overcome these demons. The majority of what I'm about to say is based on scripture and biblical principles (and practical applications and experiences I've personally had). If you believe that it's going to conflict with your own set of beliefs, you do not need to read further. But if you're comfortable, I encourage you to dive in. _____________________________________________ ~MOVE THE LINE~ "The boundary lines have fallen for me in pleasant places; surely I have a delightful inheritance." Psalm 16:6 Most people live their lives without guardrails, or at least, guardrails that hug too closely to the edge of temptation. We think this gives us freedom to roam, to explore life, and have good pleasure. But what it really does, is that it leads to a spiritual death.