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Masculine + Feminine Dynamics: How To Hold Space & Be Held.
One of the deepest longings in relationships is this: For the feminine to feel safe enough to open fully…And for the masculine to feel trusted enough to stand strong. This isn’t about roles you’re stuck in. It'ss about energies we all carry... And when these energies are honored, connection deepens. For the Masculine (Holding Space) To “hold space” means being grounded and present when emotions rise. It's not about fixing. It’s not about defending. It’s about creating safety. Here's a practice for the masculine: - When she’s expressing, breathe slowly and stay grounded. - Listen without interrupting or trying to solve. - When she’s done, simply say: “I hear you. I’m with you. I got you" - That’s how she knows your presence is steady, not conditional. For the Feminine (Being Held) To “be held” doesn’t mean weakness..it means trust.. It's letting your heart soften instead of leading with armor. Here's a practice for the woman: - When he offers support, don’t dismiss it. Receive it. - Practice saying: “Thank you. That means a lot.” - Allow yourself to lean back and let him lead. That’s how he knows his strength is welcomed, not wasted. That's how you plant seeds in him that confirm it's okay for him to lead you with strength, presence, and consistency. When the masculine holds space, the feminine feels safe to open. When the feminine allows herself to be held, the masculine rises taller & steps into his king. This is how polarity is created.This is how intimacy deepens.This is how love expands. Now it's your turn... Try one of these steps with your partner today. Notice how the energy shifts. Drop a comment if this resonates, or share which one you’re going to practice.
Masculine + Feminine Dynamics: How To Hold Space & Be Held.
1 like • Sep '25
Generally speaking I tend to agree more with @Isabel Lerida, trying to find the balance between the feminine and masculine within myself. And moreover the idea of polarity seems to exclude same sex relationships, but since I'm straight I may not be the person to have a strong opinion on that. In romantic relationships I do believe it's important to hold space for each other, not just him for me. I must be able to stay grounded when his emotions rise, listen to him and support him; just as much as he can be soft in my presence and let me lead when necessary. In short it's something that should (or must) go both ways.
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2 likes • Sep '25
This might help: https://www.skool.com/thehealingcircle/about?ref=6837a6d525484abd82b5cc96ab240a94
🤔 Beliefs in Transition: What’s Shifting for You?
We all carry beliefs.. beliefs about ourselves, the world, love, success, even what’s “possible.” Sometimes those beliefs serve us for years… and then one day, they start to feel too small for who we’re becoming. So I’m curious: - What’s a belief you’re currently questioning, or noticing doesn’t quite fit anymore? - And what new truth, insight, or possibility feels like it’s trying to emerge in its place? 🌱 No right or wrong answers here.. just a space to share what’s alive for you right now. Your reflection might even spark something in someone else. Drop it below 👇 … let’s explore these breakthroughs together.
🤔 Beliefs in Transition: What’s Shifting for You?
2 likes • Aug '25
My healing journey started about 8 months ago, before that I did some little things but got scared what I found. Especially after my mum died everything felt lighter and I was able to cry about my pain, much less about her death. Although I'm also questioning everything while healing, now I can acknowledge that the belief that I had that the family I was born into wasn't warm and closeknit. My brother and sister still think our childhood was wonderful. I'm not sure it's really a new insight that comes in it's place, apart from the fact that I've come to the decision that after the inheritence is officially divided I'm going to set the boundary of low contact (only e-mail or whatsapp).
1 like • Aug '25
@Justin Peters I'm not sure about that. My feelings about my siblings are in very muddy waters, I know I need to get that clearer. And maybe there's some type of forgiveness I can find in that process. For now, for my own sanity and healing, I need distance.
Congrats Justin and his Queen!
Congrats @Justin Peters on your Marriage yesterday to your beautiful bride! So happy for you both. Enjoy every ounce of this beautiful journey of your life, to which you have waited for, and have gone through many hardships to get to. 🫶🏽
0 likes • Aug '25
@Justin Peters Congratulations to you and your lovely wife! May your life together be everything you wish for ❤️💫.
What’s One Thing Your Younger Self Needed to Hear..But Never Did?
I’ve been reflecting lately on how different life might have felt if my younger self had heard just one truth at the right time. What’s beautiful about this inquiry is if we want to change the past we can do so by going back to it and having the conversation that the little us needed most. For some of us, it might have been… 💬 “You are enough..exactly as you are.” 💬 “It’s okay to fail. That’s how you grow.” 💬 “Love yourself first, before you try to please everyone else.” Sometimes, we don’t realize how powerful a single sentence could have been until years later. Here’s the question for you: If you could sit down with your younger self right now, what’s one thing you would tell them that they never got to hear? Your answer might inspire someone else here who needs to hear it today. Drop it in the comments ⬇️ Let’s make this thread one that heals and inspires.
What’s One Thing Your Younger Self Needed to Hear..But Never Did?
6 likes • Aug '25
Don't let the fear of being judged guide you, especially if it's mums voice you hear in your head.
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Annette Verhaar
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Knitter, amateur genealogist, healing from emotional neglect.

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