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55 contributions to Healing & Freedom Collective
Quick shift for you today 👇
Next time your mind goes back to them… Don’t try to stop it Just notice it “I’m thinking about them again” No judgement No trying to fix it That small shift creates space And space is what starts breaking the loop Try it today and tell me how it feels 🤍
Can I ask you something honestly…
Who here feels like even though it’s over… You’re still mentally stuck in it? Like you know it wasn’t right But your mind still goes back there Just comment “me” if that’s how it feels right now 🤍
Intergration
What shifted — even slightly — this week Integration doesn’t look dramatic. It often looks like: a slightly deeper breath less self-criticism a pause before reacting choosing rest without guilt These are not small things. They are signs that your nervous system is beginning to trust again. Take a moment and reflect: Did anything feel even 5% easier this week? Did you notice yourself being kinder to your body? Did you stop pushing at any point? If you want to share, you’re welcome to. If not, noticing privately still counts. Healing isnt loud its subtle and its real.
Somatic check in
A gentle nervous system pause (no fixing) Today I want to offer something very simple. Not a technique. Not an exercise. Just a pause. If you can, take 30 seconds and notice: where your body is supported (chair, floor, bed) one place that feels neutral or okay one slow exhale (no forcing) That’s it. You don’t need calm everywhere. You don’t need relief. You don’t need to feel different. One neutral moment is enough to tell your nervous system: “I’m here. Nothing is being demanded of you.” That message matters more than you realise.
Why forcing calm keeps the nervous system alert
Many people unknowingly make things harder by trying to force calm. They tell themselves to relax. They push themselves to feel grateful. They try to think positively. But pressure — even self-imposed pressure — feels very similar to threat to a nervous system that has lived in survival. When your body senses pressure, it doesn’t settle. It braces. Calm is not something you achieve through effort. It’s something your nervous system learns through repeated experiences of: predictability consistency low emotional demand not being judged for how you feel This is why healing often feels slower than we want. Because safety has to be proven — not declared. If you’re not calm yet, that doesn’t mean you’re failing. It means your body is still learning. And learning takes time.
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Anita Johnson
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I help high achieving women release the shame and regret from past abuse

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