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Journaling ✍️
For me journaling has been a very powerful way to organize my thoughts and to get more clarity in my life. Imagine a big pile of clothes in your head... this is your thoughts. Have you ever had the same scenario or thought happen in your head multiple times in a day? Imagine if this was your friend you were talking to an not yourself... When would it be enough and when would you tell them to shut up? We can entertain ourself with the same thought over and over again and our brain is interested again and again. For me journaling has organized this pile of clothes (thoughts) into drawers. If a thought pops up in my head, then I will know just which drawer it comes from, I will know the reason, the solution and why not to worry about it. When all the clothes has been organized, it's much easier to have clarity and dig deeper in who you really are. But how do I journal? I personally don't care for writing about the things I have done throughout the day. I'm much more interested in knowing how I feel and why, what made a certain situation uncomfortable, why I felt unmotivated or extra motivated in a situation etc. Sitting with a piece of paper in front of me and just vomiting out what I have felt and thought throughout the day. From there I can find solutions on how to handle it the next time I have the same experience. This is where I really can put my philosophy and values to practice. In journaling I can reflect on what's working and what's not. Optimizing and adjusting is an essential part to becoming better. Do you ever journal? If so, how has it helped you?
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Journaling to me is a life hack that helps one to steal time for oneself in the otherwise busy life. I figured out how journaling everyday things transformed to addressing the deep unresolved thoughts, feelings, behavior patterns, to actually streamlining my philosophy towards life. It made me realize the importance of when and how much to say, helps a big time in acceptance and being rooted in reality. It's a good sweet moment in the day when despite being exhausted one makes a conscious choice to well being and accountability to oneself. There are some days when I sit simply to vent about mundane things and some thought comes up from nowhere like the last piece of puzzle and I am able to make sense of something significant effortlessly. That's the beauty of journaling, you find pieces of yourself that always existed somewhere within you but you just didn't claim them so far. It also is a positive way of manifestation by writing affirmations that gets ingrained in one's mind and heart and eventually we tend to think of things as possible and channelizing our energy in that direction. I guess it was C.S. Lewis who said you can make anything by writing about it. 😊
πŸ‘‹πŸ½ Hi, Hamrah Here!✨
Hi, my name is Hamrah Basheer. I am 21 years old, and I am from Abuja, Northern Nigeria. I am currently pursuing the art of writing and content creation , and a goal I want to hit within the next 6 months is to be a little more present in life. I’m a daydreamer a lot of the time but I want to be out of my head just a little bit more within the next six months and be present. 3 words or values that describe who I am would be love, quiet and peace. My initial reason for joining this community was to perfectly align my imaginations to my reality, to better my communication skills and to grow more out of my comfort zone. And now I’m looking forward to connecting with people, spreading good will and falling in love with the journey. Nice to meet you all, looking forward to share the journey with you! Best, Hamrah🫢🏽
πŸ‘‹πŸ½ Hi, Hamrah Here!✨
0 likes β€’ Jan 21
Hi @Hamrah Basheer Welcome to the community, looking forward to amazing discussions :)
Survive
Hello everyone I'm Jen iam from Philippines I survive alot privately this year. For that, god I'm grateful.
0 likes β€’ Jan 21
Hi Jen, glad to know you. Welcome to the community:)
Are logic and emotions repulsive to each other?
Does being empathetic weakens our judgement? Can it be justified to have subjective notions of 'right' and 'wrong', or are they, by definition, objective in nature? I am trying to make sense of how these concepts impact our well-being and either promote or hinder our ability to become our best selves. What do you think about these issues? Have you ever experienced such a dilemma?
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@Agust Jonsson I see what you mean and that reminds me of Nietzsche's β€œif you kill a cockroach you are a hero, if you kill a butterfly, you are evil. Morals have aesthetic criteria.”
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@Hamrah Basheer I love how you answered each part one by one and thanks for asking me :) I think empathy is a big part of human existence, it's one of the causal factors that we co-exist and make meaningful connections with people. Being empathetic I think is an act of courage because it's pre disposition is vulnerability. Being able to show or receive it, both are equally a mature thing to handle and hence I don't think it weakens our judgement, it rather strengthens it. We often see empathy as a value we leverage for others and not oneself, when we are seemingly undecisive because of what we think is our empathy for someone, we simply are not being empathetic to consider not to feel bad about holding someone accountable. (Just what you said too) Empathy does broadens our outlook with unlocking the subjective nuances at play and yet there is a middle ground of what we call is compassionate objectivity wherein we don't discredit other people's emotions, circumstances, etc. but that doesn't let ourselves fall short of communicating respectfully what the actionable step should be. Say for instance if you see two people being hit by a vehicle where one got bruises and the other is profusely bleeding, you won't tell the former that's nothing and that see the other person (one would still empathize with that person), yet one would just simply rush the one in more need to the hospital because that's what is objective.
Productivity β‰  Intentionality
Aren't we all tired with all the extensive steps we're supposed to follow in order to be productive? Because yes, I certainly am. Infact, it made me more miserable. Well, not long ago I came across this concept of "be intentional, not productive" and after trying to etch this idea into my routine, I must say that though it is just a shift in perception it still made a drastic difference for me. I think for all of us the pressure to be productive can overshadow what truly matters. We fill out days with tasks, to-do lists, and endless activities, but how often do we pause to consider whether these actions align with our visions and goals? The difference between intentionality and productivity- β€’Productivity focuses on output- how much we can accomplish in a given time. While yes I agree this is practical, but it can lead us to prioritize quantity over quality. β€’Meanwhile, intentionality emphasizes on purpose. It's about making concious choices that lead us towards our long-term vision. Why Intentionality Matters? β€’ Clarity of Purpose: Being intentional helps you clarify what truly matters to you. When you focus on your goals, your actions become more meaningful and thus, you actually have a propelling system to keep going. β€’ Lesser Burnouts: Burnouts are the WORST. The pain of falling back into the cycle of procrastination after actually following a solid routine is what burnout does and mentally, the impact is worse. So whether it be me, a student, or a working adult, I believe that stress and burnouts are an inevitable obstacle and are often what lead to a drained mental health. And therefore, when you engage in activities that resonate with your purpose, you find greater satisfaction. How to Cultivate Intentionality? Though I've started practicing this a few weeks ago, I came up with some ways I think might help. β€’Reflection: Okay...clichΓ©d but very helpful. We humans are spontaneous and so to have the ability to grip yourself and hold back and reflect on whether what you're doing is actually something which aligns with your long term goals or not is something which, if cultivated somehow, changes the game.
3 likes β€’ Jan 20
When intentionality fuels efforts we have everything to gain since anything we do for our purpose is bound to help us become our higher selves and that's what we ultimately seeks in our life even when we pursue productivity.
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