I've been calling this cycle the Do-better loop for about 2 years now. I've love to know how this description does or does not fit how you and your partner cycle emotionally with invisible labor
Man did this one land today. Thank you. Going to rewatch with my wife. I feel like we live in this loop and have for 15 years. Celebrating our 20 year anniversary in June, but this loop, which we have never named, has been a source of major conflict.