What does it mean to be a gentleman? Host Anthony Buntyn sits down with Luis Maia. Luis is a Portuguese-born ancient history PhD based in Wales, and a fellow member of the Society of Ordinary Gentlemen. They talk about: - Dressing with intent, and how a first blazer changed the way Luis saw himself - Why being a gentleman goes beyond style to manners, integrity and keeping your word - Building confidence and staying humble while overcoming shyness and a speech impediment - Being a role model, and why Luis encourages young people to travel and study abroad - Balancing work, study, family and relationships - Luis's book recommendation: In Praise of Folly by Erasmus of Rotterdam Join the Society: Visit beagentleman.org to learn about the Society's core values and to join. Recruitment Day is Saturday, November 7, 2026, at 7 PM, and you can sign up on the website. Want to be a guest on the show? Email Anthony or leave a message through the website.