In a previous post in this community I opened up and admitted that I was diagnosed with ADHD very late in life (tender age of 62) today I found a post on fb that puts things into perspective for me. Hope you don’t mind me sharing: https://www.facebook.com/share/r/1AWtsbQnU2/?mibextid=wwXIfr Parts of this I just resonated with, anyone else?

Living at a higher resolution comes with a cost. Not because you’re arrogant. Not because you’re “too much.” But because your mind processes the world in constellations — layered, multidimensional, recursive — while most people are wired to track single stars. So you learn to translate. To compress. To simplify. To shrink. And the world rewards the edited version of you. But the cost is real. It’s the ache of being tolerated but not known. The ache of watching people glaze over when you try to share the full shape of what you see. The ache of raising a child whose mind mirrors your own, and recognizing the same social dissonance you carried for decades. It took me thirty years to build a translation layer — enough context saturation to become fluent in my own mind. Not because I lacked language. But because I lacked mirrors. Now I choose when to offer the 10-second version, the 1-minute version, or the full constellation. I choose who gets access to the uncompressed version of me. I let my work be the bridge so my body doesn’t have to. And here’s what I know now: You’re not too much. You’re not hard to understand. You’re not asking for too much. You’re simply high-resolution in a low-bandwidth world. And maybe you’re here to build the bridge others will one day walk across. 🫶❤️🙏

As ADHD founders, we usually get stuck in one of two modes: 1. Analysis Paralysis (Over-thinking) 2. Impulse Mode (Chasing the dopamine) I’ve combined 17 years of empowerment coaching with strategic intuition protocols to help high-achievers tell the difference. It turns out that getting a clear signal is a skill like any other—it can be trained. I’m teaching this method at the upcoming Oracle Cards Magic Summit (Jan 19-26). All online, no travel involved. (Don't let the name fool you—this is a deep dive on business strategy.) It’s focused on bridging the gap between 'visionary ideas' and sustainable revenue without burning out your nervous system. My session: Clean Signal, Every Time. Grab a free ticket here. Best, Matt P.S. Also, humble bragging that I got accepted to my first summit! Thanks to @Rex Loyer for letting me share this!

Recently in my own community I had a brainwave and decided to DM each of my community members, here’s what I wrote: Hey there 👋 I just wanted to do a quick check-in and say thanks for being part of HomeSafe Academy. I’m genuinely curious — are you enjoying the community so far, and are you finding value in what’s being shared? Even a short “yes / no / a bit” reply helps more than you might think. I’m also always open to shaping this space around what you actually need. Are there any questions, concerns, or topics you’d like me to cover in General Discussion or other areas of the community? Home safety, home security, online safety, real-world scenarios, checklists, guides — nothing’s off the table. If you don’t feel like writing much, even a single idea or question is perfect. This community is a slow, steady build, and your input really does help guide where it goes. Appreciate you being here, Tim ThinkSafe · ActSafe · HomeSafe Would love to get some feedback on how you connect with your community members?

A new tool I've developed to help neuro spicy persons reach coherence... Without the expense and re triggering of trauma. You don't have to know in granular detail why you react this way to change it. Here's how to do it without reliving trauma 🫶❤️✨️ 🌌 THE PARTICLE–WAVE PERCEPTION PROTOCOL A framework for observing what else is true without fighting your physiology This has three layers, each designed to meet the nervous system where it actually lives. --- 1️⃣ PARTICLE: What is happening right now in the body? This is the part that fires before you’re even conscious of it. Instead of trying to change it, you witness it. Ask: - “What is my body doing?” - “What signal is firing?” - “What does my nervous system think is happening?” Why this works: You’re not arguing with the reaction. You’re naming the physics of it. Naming is not fixing. Naming is observing the particle. This alone reduces internal conflict because you’re no longer trying to reason with a reflex. --- 2️⃣ WAVE: What else is true beyond the initial signal? This is where your brilliance kicks in — the part of you that sees patterns, context, and nuance. Ask: - “What else is true in this moment?” - “What data is missing from the frame?” - “What have I not observed yet?” - “What is true now that wasn’t true when this pattern was formed?” Why this works: You’re not replacing the belief. You’re expanding the model. The nervous system doesn’t need to be convinced. It just needs more data points to update the map. This is how beliefs evolve without force. --- 3️⃣ SUPERPOSITION: Holding both truths without collapsing the system This is the part most people never learn to do — but you already do it intuitively. The move: Hold the particle and the wave at the same time. - “My body feels unsafe.” - “And I am not in danger.” - “My system is reacting.” - “And I can observe the reaction.” - “This feels like threat.” - “And there is also evidence of safety.” Why this works: You’re not choosing one truth over the other.