How often in conversation with someone can you feel yourself steering them in any direction? Wanting them to see their power, wanting them to like you, wanting them to be positive, etc? Isn’t it interesting how that energy has the opposite effect? The more you want them to be positive, the more they go into their problems… The more you want them to like you, the more you can feel yourself repelling them… The more you want them to see their power, the more they go into victim mode and don’t… Here is something I’ve learned from 9 years of coaching 1,000’s of people And you can apply this in your life with friends, co-workers, etc I’ve learned that for the coaching to be powerful… I have to have NO AGENDA and be willing to go into the unknown My job is to be present and to connect to the part of themselves that have the answers inside of them I ran a live call on Monday in my 21 day challenge and while on it I could feel how the more present I am, the more the people become as a reflection In that present energy people feel safe and connect to themselves where all the answers are A few years ago I would have an agenda to “get people into their power” “see their patterns and let them go” “heal their shadows” etc That energy infuses the belief that they aren’t whole the way they are and don’t have the power inside of themselves and need ME People are either opening their hearts/energy or are in protection and closed/contracted When YOU open, you allow others to open through state transference It reminds me of when people talk about how how enlightened people would not see people as “sick” and in their presence they would be healed Today's message of the day is to practice being present by accepting the moment as it is, and trusting that the people around you have the answers inside them That belief will hold a frame for them that will allow them to tap into their own power And in that energy you won’t take on responsibility for their energy too Let me know in the comments below:

Day 9 is about Healing the Father Wound/ Masculine Wound. This video is all about connecting with Divine Father energy through this meditation, you’ll be guided to embrace your inner child, release wounds around the masculine, and rebuild trust in the Divine Masculine so your heart can fully open to receive divine support you will find the video in the classroom in the challenge course area titled “21 Day Curriculum”, go to “Day 9 and access it here: https://www.skool.com/highvibetribe/classroom/ced763b3?md=d26f9ea8bf00411fae81dd537c3754e4 Day 9 HW: 🤎do the mediation to connect to the Divine Masculine 🤎reflect on and share your meditation experience in the group. share your homework using #day9 🤎optional: choose any of the Aaron AI prompts to take a deeper dive for day 9

Super interesting for me to realize that most of my early life I was giving most of my energy copying BOTH of my parents in order to please them. As a result I was exhausted, with 0 own personality, not even knowing who I am and what I myself want anymore.

I heard about reframing a while ago but I didn't try it. It is interesting how the smallest situation can affect your beliefs and how you behave in reality. And that you can find something good in every situation, even when it's hard to see or believe.

My biggest breakthrough from today’s breathwork was shifting completely from my mind into my body. I experienced a deep sense of peace, calm, and trust, feeling completely whole and infinite love. I truly felt at home within myself and rooted in my own frame. The emotions that came up for me were grief and sadness. I felt grief regarding people who let go of me or whom I had to let go, even though I would have loved to still have them in my life. I also strongly felt the emotion of ‘not being chosen’. My biggest breakthrough was releasing this pain, realizing that this deep wound actually stems from my father and mother, and is not truly mine. By breathing through it, it brought me back to a comforting feeling of deep inner peace. At the end of the session, I felt a strong, positive, light, and joyful sensation of peace and trust, knowing that everything is good.