Thoughtful Tuesday: The Law of Attraction
Yes, it’s already Tuesday here in Japan! I live in the future!!🤣 Anyways, today I would like to discuss the ‘Law of Attraction.’ I imagine most of you have at least heard of it at some point. Regardless of how much you know, here is a great summary of it that I really recommend reading: What Is the Law of Attraction? Now, for a bit of a story… Back in my early 20s, I worked in the summer, between university semesters, for a friend I met at the chess club (chess has allowed me to meet so many interesting people, but that’s a topic for another post!). He is a very successful small-scale entrepreneur, who owns and runs a high-end woodworking shop just outside of my hometown. Next to his shop, he lives in a beautiful house right by the river, has some nice cars, plays golf most weekends in the summer, etc. You get the picture – a successful entrepreneurial boomer. I did landscaping for him, building rock walls, pouring cement, etc., with him mentoring me, and during our time working together, he would sometimes try to teach me things about life. One of the things he told me, referring to the Law of Attraction, was “you can have anything you want in life, but you must be patient, and you gotta work hard,” or something along those lines (he also had a CD about the Law of Attraction in his truck, which I would listen to while running errands in it). Naturally, as a ‘university educated,’ ‘rational’ person, with a background in psychology and a good understanding of research, statistics and probability, I objected: “But, but…Plenty of people who work hard don’t get anywhere! The system is against them! Bad things happen to plenty of good people! Simply thinking about a Porsche won’t magically bring it into your life!” were some of the things I said confidently, in retort. I wasn’t necessarily wrong, but I was missing the point… He wasn’t trying to tell me that for sure my dream car would appear one day if I thought about it hard enough, even though that’s what his words may have said on the surface level…