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Something fun for a Saturday
This is another of the Knitted Polos my wife purchased for me from OXKNIT. They are a fun retro style polo, 100% cotton and great for spring, cooler summer days and I guess those sunny Autumn (Fall) days. It is a fun pattern, definately on the casual side potentially Smart-Casual depending on other elements and I am sure I could run this into a resort wear outfit 😉 Todays outfit: OXKNIT MEN'S MULTICOLORED RETRO BIRD ART JACQUARD POLO KNIT SHIRT Superior Staple Slim Chino Pants in Camel Anson Seal Blue 🌊 Buffalo leather Strap on a classic curved buckle in gunmetal Ecco Street Tray Mens Sport Classic Sneaker in Navy Seuss OTAA Kahki textured socks SOTD - Mancera French Riviera WOTD - Islander Greenport with a Stone Grey Dial with Sky Blue Accents
Something fun for a Saturday
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@Brian McGuire lol. I saw another one where a person notes that his friends asked him to go camping so he made a list of things he will need. Number 1. New friends.
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@Chad Smith A cross we all bear as good husbands.
OOTTD-CW - 12 November 2026
Another travel day, another day to rejoice how it should be done... and learn a few lessons. 14+ hours on a plane probably means suede shoes are a friendlier choice. I also believe that a tie with better drape with work throughout the long day vs. a cashmere tie. I still believe a casual tie may be the ideal approach, but will experiment with some alternatives, such as knitted silk or - my current favorite - shantung. I'm afraid I do not have details of the wardrobe. It seems that United blocks access to my AI Bot - grrr! Alas, I have photos! I'm looking forward to sleeping in my own bed and hugging the family.
OOTTD-CW - 12 November 2026
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@Darren Poesel I used to bring something home to her every trip. I think I traveled so much that it was a reminder of the trips she wasn’t able to take so she asked me to stop bringing them home. Every now and then she’ll ask me to look for a specific item that is well made in the area I am visiting. And even if I pass through SF, I must pick up Boudin Sourdough bread or face the wrath!
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@Darren Poesel It’s much better to be that guy than the one who never thought to bring her back something.
BE a “good man”
“Dress up to be the gentleman you aspire to be” https://youtu.be/W5-jYxSCP00?is=z3IouALVM2iQG4s5 I had to share Ash Jones’s video today. He was inspired by Saint Homobonus(Italian: Sant'Omobono, German: Sankt Gutmann, Lombard: San Mobon) day yesterday. Homobonus or the more recognizable perhaps Germanic version: Gut-man, is the patron saint of tailors, shoe makers, cloth makers and businessmen. His name simply means GOOD MAN. If you have read any of my posts you are “painfully” aware that I began this journey into classic timeless menswear 50 years ago as I became a clothier in three different fine menswear stores over 10 years. Up until the great wave of perpetual office-casual dress began around 2014, I had been practicing this art for a long time. It was only 2024 after joining the RMRS community that I began to realize the true purpose for re-kindling my love of quality clothing and its importance. I think many people joined RMRS because they were tired of blending into the flotsam of the raging river of apathy. Perhaps it’s less of a raging river than a storm sewer runoff where one simply doesn’t care. It’s a malaise not only about one’s appearances but an indifference or perhaps even callous concern for others that extends far beyond mere clothing. Ironically when I began again to tailor my older clothing and started wearing my ties again, virtually everyone I know started asking me: A) where was I going to be so dressed up (place)? and B) why was I so “dressed up” (purpose)? Admittedly I was a bit self conscious about it at first. However my response became “out of respect for seeing you today” always followed by a grin. The more I said this line, the more it became real and I began to believe it. We as gentlemen might begin this journey with the attitude -hey look at me. And people will. But if we turn that to respect for others that is a sign of respect and kindness. Kindness has an aspect of gentleness. Consequently nothing whatsoever expresses the attitude of a GENTLEman more than the Golden Rule: DO UNTO OTHERS AS YOU WOULD HAVE OTHERS DO UNTO YOU. In others words, as one is toeing their tie think about someone you might be able to assist as if you were in their shoes today. Today’s Chap Guide brilliantly expresses the irony that is imbedded into the centuries old art of dressing well. A hoodie and sweats and crocs may “seem” as though one is comfortable in their presentation. However if that is the case, then why would anyone even be able to recognize and comment on you when you are looking differently? Once I returned to the “norm” of dressing well almost every time I left the house, everything began to change for me. After nearly half a century that began as a kid mentoring others in this art of dressing, I knew that it would work. I knew its value- especially when it’s well fitting garment , made from quality natural fabrics. My confidence in knowing what I am doing translated to comfort. The Fit, (comfort), the Function (place), The Fabric (comfort and place) -together combine to instill the confidence to truly express my respect to those around me by first respecting myself enough to make the effort. This is the PURPOSE behind “Dressing up to be the gentleman you aspire to be”. When the “hey look at me” part inevitably kicks in - consider that as an after-effect bonus, not the start. In other words, if a guy is new or returning to this world, then to the best of one’s ability, practice dressing well with quality fit, and fabric worn to the appropriate function (simply be astute about where and when). The next step is to constantly be polite to others, by showing kindness and genuine interest in them irrespective of where they are in THEIR sartorial journey. This is how a society of ordinary gentlemen can thrive.
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This was one of his best videos, and I’ve seen all nearly 1100. The message hit home on not just being inspired to dress well, or even to help others, but to do your part to help motivate others who seem to want to try it out but don’t know how to take the first step. To compliment the person who wore a button down shirt instead of a polo to the office for the first time. Don’t make them feel like they just got the welcome letter from the cult but rather a simple “that’s great- I like what you did.”
Casual Friday WFH -Errand Day and Evening
Grabbed my Brooks Brothers ribbed mock neck merino ribbed sweater. An old olive mini guncheck print sportcoat, black 501 Levi’s, Indian belt. Clark’s black canvas derby’s, Darn Tough socks, Seiko model 5. Lots of band stuff this weekend. Had to run to Tulsa to get a compression pedal for my stand up bass and my electric bass. Plus a quick run in the dark out to stick a heater in boat as the temps will fall below freezing tonight (threw on my new overcoat I got in Scotland for that run), plus some flowers and a card for the missus’ birthday tomorrow, plus run throughs of the tune we are playing Sunday.
Casual Friday WFH -Errand Day and Evening
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Great harmony of colors today, @Brian McGuire. Mentioning both basses reminds me of the next-level capability of two particular bassists: Stanley Clark and Getty Lee. I saw Clark live twice, both in the 90s for a band called Animal Logic. It included Stewart Copeland, drummer for The Police. I had never seen someone play a standup bass with one hand and an electric bass with the other hand simultaneously. It blew my mind. Clearly, you need the right key signature but that’s the easy part. Getting the notes to pop on both instruments without the benefit of the other hand is crazy. And then it’s Clark: he’s not playing anything simple in either bass! Getty Lee is one of my favorite musicians ever, though single bass to single bass, Clark probably wins. But when I saw Rush for the first time, I was their to see Peart, given my longtime drumming background. I came away that note recognizing that Peart was better than I thought (still not as good as his replacement on pure skills on the drums but maybe the most consistent drummer ever and easily one of the best writers of drum music ever), but Lee was the greatest musician in the band. Playing incredible bass parts in one hand (almost always in odd time), keyboards with another, and singing on top of that?! God level. So, my question, how often do you play both basses at the same time? I mean, I can playing about 20 percussive instruments at the same time in a song 😀
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@Scott Paeth Did she want to start wearing them or find them insufficiently masculine?
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@Antonio Centeno Completrly agree. Women have had this knowledge for decades. If they love a fragrance their man wears, they just wear it themselves.
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PhD clinical psychology. Owner of P3 Research, a company specializing in PRO/COA consulting for bio/pharma. Dressing well is part of my persona.

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