Emotional Independence - A Reflection: Yesterday, when Aleeza mentioned that we should talk about emotional independence, something instantly clicked for me. I felt excited not because it’s a trendy topic, but because it’s something I’ve quietly struggled with for most of my life, without having a name for it. Looking back, I realize how often I lived in one-sided emotions whether in friendships, family, or relationships. I constantly needed validation, appreciation, or reassurance to feel “enough.” And while that need is very human, I now understand how much power I was unknowingly giving away. For the first time, I’m learning that when someone doesn’t appreciate you, it doesn’t automatically mean you lack value. It simply means they may not have the capacity, awareness, or alignment to see you and that’s not a verdict on your worth. This topic matters deeply to me because emotional independence isn’t about becoming detached or cold. It’s about learning to stand with yourself even when others don’t. It’s about understanding that your self-worth doesn’t rise or fall based on someone else’s response. I’m grateful that this space allows us to talk about things that are often overlooked, especially for women. I’m really looking forward to hearing everyone’s thoughts and learning together through this conversation. I will be sharing more information about this topic In sha Allah. Looking forward to the session on Monday with @Aleeza Shahzadi

Assalamu Alaikum everyone, I wanted to take a moment to share why I’ve been a bit quiet recently. Over the past week, I haven’t been feeling well both physically and emotionally due to flue, fever and some personal matters. At times, I needed space and didn’t feel ready to be around or engage with anyone, as I wanted to give myself time to process what was happening. While I continued working, I didn’t have the capacity to actively engage or post my journals and notes here. I truly appreciate the understanding and support within this community. I’m gradually getting back on track and looking forward to engaging more consistently again. I need your sincere prayers. Thank you 😊 ✨️

Daily journal Date: 9th December Day: Tuesday One thing I want to remember about today is to never take advantage of someone's helplessness. I know it can feel frustrating because of what they did to you, and now you may have the power to hurt them back but that will never bring you peace. You might take advantage, but you won’t get away with it. It will haunt you forever. Sleep log😴 ▪︎ Sleep time: 1:00 am ▪︎ Wake time: 6:39 am ▪︎ 6:39 am - 9:00 am: prayed fajar + zikar + duaa + virtual assistant videos on YouTube ▪︎ 9:00 am - 10:30 am: sleeping ▪︎ 11:30 am - 3:00 pm: household chores + lunch + prayed zuhur + exploring jobs on Upwork ▪︎ 3:00 pm - 4:00 pm: Prayed asr + tajweed class ▪︎ 4:00 pm - 5:00 pm: tajweed class + chai ▪︎ 5:00 pm - 6:00 pm: Tajweed class + prayed maghrib ▪︎ 6:00 pm- 7:00 pm: tajweed class + isha ▪︎ 7:00 pm - 8:00 pm: Live session not happening so watched a video on "Tell better stories in English" https://youtu.be/OaiQND8hsW8?si=MTpjb6QGc4EU4qw0 + dinner + did my dishes ▪︎ 8:00 pm - 9:00 pm: Writing journal + half tajweed class ▪︎ 9:00 pm - 10:00 pm: I have a commitment with a community member ( will talk to her on call) ▪︎ 10:00 pm - 11:00 pm: watched the remaining part of " Tell better stories in English" + made notes of the video + will attend dummy bidding and then sleep What data will I look up after a month or a year? ▪︎ I want to earn money, be able to perform an umrah in sha' Allah, and, most importantly, I want to be a better human being and a better Muslim. Want to have a life according to the Sunnah. Reminders: ▪︎ Don't forget to talk to Allah ▪︎ pray 5 times ▪︎ Help others ▪︎ Go with the flow, things will happen miraculously ▪︎ Keep learning, it will always benefit you. ▪︎ start making notes of social media management ▪︎ work on English learning skills Diet: Breakfast: woke up late so didn't had breakfast Lunch: Leftover karely Dinner: Beef karahi Day Close Section

Alhamdulillah for moments like this. If someone had told me 10 years ago that one day I would buy something this meaningful with my own money, I wouldn’t have believed it. I was a completely different version of myself back then unsure, dependent, and never imagining I’d reach a point where I could provide for myself. But life has a way of unfolding in the most unexpected ways. Allah has a way of guiding you gently, step by step, even when you don’t notice it. This MacBook wasn’t bought from freelancing it’s from the money I earned through tuitions. And I’m sharing this because sometimes we all need a reminder: Growth takes time. Consistency matters. And every small effort made with trust in Allah eventually leads you somewhere beautiful. If you’re on your journey, don’t stop. Your duaas, your struggles, your little steps they will all be worth it, In shaa Allah. Here’s to new beginnings and silent prayers becoming visible blessings. 🌿✨

Hehe, Hello! Ladies and Gentlemen Designing my Sister's Wedding Card on Adobe Illustrator huff feeling too much tired But enjoying the process Alhamdulilah I was thinking to make it royal blue and gold Which color should I choose? Huff too much confusion is :')