Pinned
Sep '25 •
👋 Welcome! Let's get to know each other
We want this community to feel like a safe space where we can all support each other's marriage journeys. Let's start with introductions! You can use this simple format: Hey, I'm from ________________. I'm here because ________________. The biggest thing I'm working on in my marriage right now is ________________. Examples: - "Hey, I'm Sarah from Texas. I'm here because we keep having the same fights over and over and I'm exhausted." - "I'm Mike from Ohio. I'm here because my wife and I feel like roommates and I want that spark back." - "I'm Lisa from Florida. I'm here because my husband won't engage in fixing our problems and I'm trying to figure out how to create change on my own." - No judgment here - just real people working on real relationships. The more we know about each other, the better we can support and encourage one another. Drop your intro below! 👇
12h •
Stop the Mind Reading
You assume you know why they did it. You think they left the socks on the floor to disrespect you. You think they were quiet because they are angry. This is mind-reading. It is dangerous. Rule: You must ask. You cannot assume. Say this instead. "I noticed you are quiet. I am telling myself you are mad at me. Is that true?" Clarify before you fight.
2
0
1d •
Marriage Maintenance (The "OK" Marriage)
The Drift Marriages do not usually blow up instantly. They drift apart slowly. You stop asking questions. You stop touching. You stop going to bed at the same time. If your marriage feels "fine" but distant, you are drifting. Correction requires action. Go for a walk together tonight. Hold hands. Close the gap.
2d •
Stop the Mind Reading
You assume you know why they did it. You think they left the socks on the floor to disrespect you. You think they were quiet because they are angry. This is mind reading. It is dangerous. Rule: You must ask. You cannot assume. Say this instead. "I noticed you are quiet. I am telling myself you are mad at me. Is that true." Clarify before you fight.
5
0
5d •
The Light of the World
As we step into a new month, remember who goes with you. Jesus said, "I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life." February can be gray, but your spirit doesn't have to be. Walk in the Light this week, friends.
1-30 of 110
skool.com/11marriage
Build your 11/10 marriage on a biblical foundation of faith. Find hope & reconnection as you move from just surviving to truly thriving together.
Leaderboard (30-day)
1
+16
2
+6
3
+4
4
+4
5
+3
Powered by