A truly sexually empowered woman does not PERFORM eroticism
She slows down and she notices what is happening in her body
She is not looking to the outside to be desired or feel validated
She values herself first
She is focused on her own body and where pleasure and desire is showing up
And she trusts what it tells her
She even notices her own stress responses that might arise and she understands her patterns and believes herself when something feels "off"
She asks questions and states her desire
She does not manipulative, obfuscate or guess what someone else wants
She is direct, secure and has her own back
She does not give more of herself than is reciprocated
She knows that she is enough
She knows that she holds the power
She does not need to wield it to get what she wants
She already has want she wants
And she discerns with whom and how she will share it