Let’s talk about something that most wrestlers get backwards.
Selling yourself is like dating.
The one who needs it more is the one chasing.
And the one chasing… loses power.
If you’re blowing up a promoter’s inbox…
If you’re double texting about bookings…
If you’re sending your highlight reel every week…
You’re signaling desperation.
And desperation repels.
Here’s the flip.
Attraction beats chasing.
When a promoter feels like:
“I need this talent on my show”
That’s when you win.
So how do you stop chasing?
You build value.
You create buzz.
You get reactions.
You sell merch.
You bring fans.
You cut promos people remember.
You make the building louder when you walk through the curtain.
Now the promoter isn’t doing you a favor.
They’re solving a problem.
This doesn’t mean sit at home and hope.
It means position yourself from strength.
Instead of:
“Please book me.”
It becomes:
“Here’s what I bring to your event.”
Big difference.
The wrestler who brings heat, ticket sales, and attention doesn’t beg.
They get invited.