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Why You’re Still in a Situationship – NOT a Healthy Relationship Leading to Marriage The reason you don’t yet have a committed, loving and mutually respectful relationship is because your actions have a bit of a rebellious undertone, no? You keep repeating what feels familiar — instead of taking the intentional humbling actions that actually create the love you desire. It’s like the movie My Best Friend’s Wedding.Michael had “fun times” with Julianne (Julia Roberts’ character) — but he chose to marry Kimmy (Cameron Diaz) Why? Because while Julianne was exciting and magnetic, she didn’t offer the grounded, feminine, “wife energy” that Kimmy did. And here’s the truth: there are so many amazing women like Julianne, but they don’t know how to BALANCE what makes them captivating with what makes them deeply secure, chosen, and cherished. Julianne energy:• Saying yes to men who don’t pursue you seriously.• Over-giving in hopes he’ll “see your worth.”• Acting casual about commitment when you actually want marriage.• Getting stuck in “fun but going nowhere” dynamics. Kimmy energy:• Attracting men who are aligned with your values and vision.• Receiving and letting a man lead the pursuit.• Expressing your standards with warmth and clarity.• Creating a sense of security, playfulness, and long-term partnership. Marriage isn’t about being the most fun, the most successful, or the most beautiful. It’s about knowing when to expand and when to contract, when to lean into your femininity and when to bring in masculinity. That’s the SmartHeart Breakthrough: shifting from unintentional actions that sabotage love, to intentional actions that create the marriage you’re ready for. DM me and let’s balance out your Julianne spiciness while embracing some Kimmy energy too.