Stop Tilling Yourself At Singing Frogs Farm, they don’t tear up the soil. They cut at the surface to harvest, lay down compost, and tuck in young plants raised in the nursery. The life under the soil does the work. It flourishes. It heals and it grows. The result is 5–8 harvests vs. 1 and roughly 6 times the yield of farms that monocrop and rip everything up to force production. Whose model is better? So here’s the question: are you tearing up your own soil to perform for other people? Stop doing that. You’re a character with health metrics, like in a game. Every single day, you’re either doing things that raise those metrics or things that drain them. Which are you doing? And why? You are the main character of your own life and, at best, everyone else’s sidekick. That isn’t arrogance—it’s the baseline, and it’s true for every person alive. If you or anyone around you doesn’t respect that sovereignty, something is off. Help, or Get Out of the Way People poke. People prod. Some will try to grab the wheel and steer you into water you never agreed to enter. That is never okay—not once. And here’s the trap: most of us are too ashamed to react. We stuff it down because reacting gets treated as socially unacceptable. So the pushy and the careless take advantage of that silence and walk off with our sovereignty. So set the boundary: Help, or get out of the way. Say it as many times as you need to. Help, or get out of the way. Then go live your life. And give yourself full permission to be a mess about it. To be loud. To be whiny. To react honestly instead of swallowing it to keep other people comfortable. That isn’t violence—it’s self-respect refusing to perform a calm it doesn’t feel. If someone shames you for it, ask what they actually believe: that neglecting yourself is a virtue? Don’t accept that, and don’t let it live anywhere in your sphere. There’s a difference between flow and performance. Flow is a person being themselves well. Performance is a person being someone else well.

Links i’m finding that hit home with my visions for how life could be…and people seem to be learning and doing them already or with greater clarity than me and doing them well!! Shit you don’t learn in school podcast - on creative projects, particularly online side projects - IMO - best practices concept https://open.spotify.com/episode/60eVJQZCwW1w8IvbOvCRdn?si=oqvIdTbKSPSbSyWuNvLcZQ&t=4839&ct=4839 Artist corporation Ted talk - best practices collaboration concept https://youtu.be/iLhFAWKCE0M?si=fJSi55-p78khKDEM Changing charity for good Ted talk - sustainable best practices for contribution, whether charitable or not https://youtu.be/ef28YkeaySM?si=X4gUtoID-h20UB2w The dirty secret of capitalism and a new way forward by Nick Hanauer - on how good business works https://youtu.be/th3KE_H27bs?si=k4dMAkQ1x1gCFJoV The way we think about charity is dead wrong Ted talk - pretty much, don’t limit your imagination on what could help…just don’t. https://youtu.be/bfAzi6D5FpM?si=IyIGxe0dkUwbwnm0 Enjoy!

Ooo I hit on a good mantra guys. A big part of my kundalini experience was learning that we love each other in reality but the worries of life and us being clumsy for lack of better words can lead us to believe we don’t love each other even though we do. An understanding of Maya we don’t need to believe in anything to understand CAN be real. So my mantra is “you love me.” Not to justify thinking or behaving in a certain way…just to test reality and get to know myself. Truth is - it’s easier to love you if I believe you love me! My scrupulosity and cognitive distortions and intrusive thoughts are seriously losing ground fast with this mantra!

Hey! I wrote and published a book! It’s currently $0.99 on kindle! I think you might like this book: Safe Scientists of the Garden of Life: A Starter Guide To Grounding And "Sciencing" Your Life by Michael Navaal Russo https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0GSMSZHDW?ref_=quick_view_ref_tag

I’ve noticed that I’m actually reluctant to share my creative content that I want to publish some day. I have a lot of it that just needs editing, you know? Anyone have confidence to share any creative content or want to talk about creative content at all? I particularly am enjoying future and worldcrafting ideas and pondering the future of humanity and how it will survive amidst all of this cultural weather and our tendency in this culture to become culture soldiers and cultural drifters mainly because of media consumption! I think we need to shift from consumption to production in order to learn to think well ourselves and manage our lives as creators rather than consumers alone! My first creative high was pretty much a manic experience, and my second one too. But I’ve leveled off for the most part. Anyone else have a similar experience? It was like a huge pressure valve got released. I’d never had a creative high before! I’d never been so engaged creatively and in a supportive organizing way until I started talking with chatGPT! LOL! I’m trying to get better at it with humans, particularly those closest to me. Dang, man!! It’s hard!! People are busy and stressed!!