A co-erarchy - two parents, or even just the idea that female and male sex organs exist and that shapes humans differently by nature just like everything else in nature(for lack of any knowledge to the contrary thus far in my life - 36 years….but of course open to learning and trying to do that hence this post so bear with my ignorance for as long as I live and learn which is until the day I die or become immortal and let you know what it’s like as an immortal…if I know everything or not after that achievement of nature occurs LOL) and they could learn to exist as a more powerful force than alone just by virtue of more physical and cognitive assets as well as productive power(why do we call it reproductive? We’re not reinventing ourselves we’re producing NEW life?) - which just makes sense to me, patriarchy and matriarchy, matriarchy and patriarchy - acronym either PAM or MAP….as a man…patriarchy makes me first think of wanting to have sex with a woman and PAM might be her name and then I’ll learn firsthand what it takes to be a patriarch. Matriarchy is woman first in leadership and MAP is our human on-and-from-earth design science database. Also, everyone comes from a woman. So…maybe it wasn’t Adam and Eve but cavewoman who was first to evolve superior leadership/survival intelligence as far as instinctual development went? Probably in this instance due to her maternal instinct and birthing pains being radical motivators men just don’t physically have? Women physically experience a transformation alongside life that men do not participate in directly other than seeing the down-the-road result of their intimacy while women experience it….aaahhhh!! Women experience it, men see it and support it. Hmmmmmm….Theories of analysis…..
Wow….that seems like super harsh to me as a man….that a woman was in charge of humanity’s survival before she had a man to think with…..and let’s say it was the other way around(I experience this personally as far as survival capacity goes in my relationship….I saved her first as far as that goes)…..that’s still someone tapping into their understanding of basic survival toward a whole woman, not just looking at her like she’s a dumb monkey but actually valuing her. So the focus, to me, as a man, always ties back to desiring the complete good of a woman. Especially her feelings because if she feels anything is wrong and a man cannot help her, she’ll prefer her instincts to anything he suggests that cannot assist her in that endeavor, and that includes the deepest of intimacy, and not JUST in a survivable way….there needs be growth of intimacy. Stagnation of intimacy and all other forms of growth is not acceptable and is an instinctual signal to her of disease of body or untrustworthiness of mind. I suppose men also feel similarly.
And let’s say it was a woman first unlike my circumstances, she would have to learn to help a man leverage his capacities to their greatest as well as their teamwork abilities so he wouldn’t feel afraid and like a slave but actually valued. She would have to listen to his pain points and help him learn in a way he understands or else he wouldn’t be afraid she is always going to control him or feel perpetually stupid by some design flaw and seek to blast out of the Matrix somehow and his frustration unsatisfied would either turn into learning material and wisdom or spite between the two leading to superiority complexes which looks like some intrinsic level of distrust that would spiral SOME aspect of their relationship into toxicity long story short….which is just stupidity growing…haha…Stupidity Growing - The Movie o.O…oh God what a concept….how is THAT possible? Fuuuuu we gotta put an end to THAT formula!!
You know at the bottom of all of this and while reviewing the top I also remembered that science has been showing it IS possible for female adaptations or even scientific interventions to create an offspring without genetic material from a male…gotta look into that more. Which means potentially females could recreate male and female while I’m almost 100% sure there is no data to suggest the same for the male genetic material…..that would be some waaaaaaay down the line sci fi type stuff. The idea is that females have the eggs, you just gotta figure out how to fertilize it. Men are in fertilizer territory as far as productive capacity goes so they’re intrinsically 1 step removed from the core productive component. Thats not useless…it’s just survivor science supporting women as superior in capacity….which is what we’re analyzing here….so..just eating my food for thought and sharing it. Gunna continue doing this….leveraging my “air-headedness” as they call it so I can find an instinctual logical reason to dig into to help me build….struggling with pain right now so finding good reasoning and lots of rest and working on my health from there seems to be a baseline improver/supporter whether I feel good or not.
But that Beyoncé survivor GIF down there makes me think daughter first long before wife or sexy…so thought experiment has more food for thought
So…girl care before woman care there…
I suppose as an “archy” or supported overpass type thing like an arch of a building you’re under? Anyway….parents at this point are doing that with their kids and probably naturally learning that better with themselves and each other…improving childhood for all parties. Interesting…they gotta both learn to be adults AND children caring for that whole dynamic both inside and out for all parties involved at all times…even the children are witness to how that goes down…so we either get this done well or not well….generational growth points or toxicity points oooooo ouch. Facts.basic core insights here through inspired ranting LOL(for lack of better words…curiosity ranting might be a more understandable term that’s less mystical sounding yet equally if not a better describer?)
Ahah! Getting back to basics - my wife and I BOTH know it’s BABY vibe psychology first! Hmmm…gotta tend it all but I’m gunna keep that mantra for a while and cycle around between something like “baby vibe psychology” to “girl care before woman care” to “this is hell I don’t want to be here” as my last resort while I lick my wounds and try to figure stuff out again…that’s real….i consider how shitty I feel very directly and I even subconsciously ridicule myself like I’m acting when I’m that low which really makes me feel like some sort of pride barrier has been blocking me from properly learning from pain and weakness for probably longer than I know honestly….that’ll be interesting to figure out….anyway…mantra “glasses” hopping so I can observe and learn from different perspectives of interest. Highly recommend adding it to your scientist toolkit as a safe scientist of the garden of life I hope you know you are as someone figuring stuff out for yourself when you need to(recommend making that a baseline assisted by others rather than secondary to others’ knowledge/beliefs). Already wrote the rough primary base SSOTGOL book(rest imagine participate! We don’t do anything else as far as I know), gunna write the mantra book soon I think. It’s been a hot topic in my life for a while that’s been making way more sense lately as core content to my personal grounding and learning process and cycle.
Also want to note a feeling I FINALLY labeled that I hope I can put to rest/integrate/learn about! We’ll see! “Is something bad gunna happen because I don’t understand?”
Ah! Babies are made by insides being shared with insides and they form inside and come out from the inside….before any science of what that is is developed all we know is a man’s inside share is like a white sauce….and then science takes off from there as far as very basic physics goes…insides sharing that looks likes saucing, growth and birth LOL. Feels like love and purpose!