Let me ask you a question that may change your life, if you give it enough consideration.... Here it is... 💥If you had a magic wand—and you could become instantly more aware of just one thing in yourself— what would it be? Not something you’d fix... Deeper... Not something you’d improve.... Just something you’d finally see clearly. in YOURSELF... Like: A pattern you keep repeating... and don't know how to change it... A reaction you don’t fully understand yet...but which happens too often.... Something you sense is running the show in the background.... I found, what’s interesting is that most people don’t lack answers.... What they lack, is accurate awareness of what’s actually driving things.... Which makes this question "life -changingly" powerful.💥 So I’m really curious—and am inviting you to share this here.... what came to mind before you tried to think of a good answer?

Let me share something with urgency...honestly—because it really matters, and you’ll understand why. We are being MASSIVELY influenced every day. Not with pendulums.... Not on a couch WITH EYES CLOSED Not by someone telling us to “sleep.” We are influenced through language, attention, emotion, and repetition—through subtle layers of communication that operate beneath conscious awareness. And here’s an important truth to hold with clarity, not fear: 👉 Influence works whether we recognize it or not. Because what many call hypnosis isn’t a performance. It’s a state—a well-understood state of focused attention combined with emotion. Any time our attention locks onto something and emotion follows, the unconscious mind opens. And when it opens, it doesn’t analyze—it responds. This isn’t a flaw. It’s how the human system works. That’s how deep manipulation can happen. Not through obvious ideas. But through framing, presuppositions, repetition, and emotional trigger points that quietly shape perception and behavior. Over time, these can become what I think of as mind viruses—automatic reactions that feel like our own thoughts. 🧬 This is why people sometimes defend beliefs that limit them. 🧬 Why reactions override reflection. 🧬 Why fear, outrage, and self-doubt spread faster than clarity. These mechanisms are known. They are studied. They are used. By media. By advertising. By ideology. By systems that benefit when people are disconnected from their inner authority. This isn’t conspiracy. It’s how influence works. Here’s the part that truly matters: 👉 We are always in a state of influence. Every time we focus. Every time emotion rises. Every time a story grips our attention. So the real question is never “Am I being influenced?” The real question is: 🧠 Is this influence aligned with my truth, my values, and my freedom? Influence itself is neutral. It can diminish us—or awaken us. Used unconsciously, it leads to confusion and dependency. Used consciously, it becomes a pathway to clarity, healing, and sovereignty.

I was blind but Now I See The Importance I put on her opinion Of me Of her trust In me How much I let Her impression of me Impress upon me What I see When the mirror looks back at me Opinion addiction under attack Step back, breathe, transcend Bam Lightsharing again Angry though Letting it go Slow I Am Doc Tom Maybe you aren't experiencing a break-up or relationship transition. But odds are you are experiencing some sort of unpreferred contrast in your life. Because you're human... It's part of the deal. This is why this matters for you. This is the Frequency Flow (another N.E.A.T. tool) that I am using today to stay out of the Wound Light so I can create, interact, and experience from the Champion Light. When words rhyme and feel good and true, a stronger impact is made on the subconscious mind, allowing more rapid release of old programs and creating space for programs that align with who I am choosing to be and what I am choosing to experience in this game of Life. There is a frequency flow for every contrast - when you find yours, you shift from suffering to choosing. True Freedom is reclaiming the power to choose. Life happens, and sometimes it feels pretty shitty. It's part of the deal. The space after loss is called the void. It is in the void after some loss that we are able to choose more clearly. What contrast are you experiencing now? What do you choose instead?

Most people think their suffering comes from what happened. It rarely does. It comes from the quiet, ongoing argument they’re having with reality. The moment something arises—an emotion, an event, a reaction—and the inner voice says this shouldn’t be happening, a cost is incurred. Not morally. Energetically. Spiritually. Structurally. You’ve stepped out of coherence and into opposition. 💥Here’s the distinction that changes everything: “Negative” isn’t an experience. It’s a relationship to an experience. Reality itself is neutral. Sensation is neutral. Events are neutral. The suffering begins when resistance enters. This is where a lot of spiritual paths subtly derail. We talk about acceptance, non-resistance, surrender—but then secretly try to feel better as fast as possible. Positivity becomes a strategy. A way to override discomfort. A way to avoid being with what is. But forced positivity is still a fight.💫 It’s saying: I need reality to be different so I can be okay. And that stance fractures the inner system. One part of you is experiencing something real. Another part is trying to correct, suppress, or transcend it prematurely. Now there’s tension. Inner noise. Leakage of energy. This is the real spiritual tax people pay every day—without realizing it. 🤔Two people can face the same circumstance. One becomes grounded, clear, and decisive. The other becomes anxious, reactive, and depleted. Same event. Different relationship. This is why maturity isn’t about chasing light and eliminating darkness. That binary thinking keeps the war alive. Real spiritual strength comes from coherence—the ability to remain aligned with reality as it moves, without collapsing into resistance or control. 💥💥And let’s be precise here, because discernment matters: There is an Absolute. There is absolute good. And there is absolute evil. But most of what people label “negative” is neither. It’s unintegrated human information—signals asking to be met honestly. Confusing discomfort with evil doesn’t make you virtuous; it makes you fragmented. Absolute evil is a different category altogether. That’s not what most inner experiences are.

Key questions we should ask ourselves What are my core values, and how do they influence my decisions and actions? What passions or activities make me lose track of time because I am so engaged and fulfilled? When have I felt the most proud of myself, and why? What are my biggest fears, and how do they hold me back from reaching my potential? If money and time were no object, what would I spend my days doing? How do I handle failure and setbacks, and what can I learn from my past experiences? In what ways do I want to grow and develop in the next 5 years? Who are the people who inspire me the most, and what qualities do they possess that I admire? What legacy do I want to leave behind, and how am I working towards it? How do I plan to make this world a better place for mankind? Being private, and not telling everyone anything self care. Seek respect, not attention. It lasts longer. There will always be someone who doesn't see your worth. Don't let it be you. Be careful who you trust. Salt and sugar look the same. Don't have regrets. Just do better next time. Some things have to end for better things to begin.