i just want to ask a simple question that as i mentioned in the previous post i have like lot of exams coming up in the next 3 months so i am going to meet less people now as more and more people are focusing on study .
So idk like earlier rn i should feel a need to met more and more people and improve on these things or how to go abt it like small realistic goals but like what and how ??
Also like recently as i am meeting less people I am again going back to the old habit OF OVERTHINKING every singlee conversation like rly every thing . ik i is bad but as i talk i a thinking am i saying the correct stuff or being the person i wanna be or like improving or not type stuff . SO like i am not able to decide how to go abt this as i dont think not talking to people 3 months is good also the prob is just i am again going back to overthinking every single convo which i dont rly wanna go .
The thing i just want is like if i am not improving i should be "worse" this is my main concern and worry as i want when these exams get over and i am in the new class i wann to be THE NEW ME and be good where ever i am lacking like overthinking , physical fitness , trying to get real good friendship with emotional connection (idk what to say abt this )...