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Can You Accept People Not Liking You?
It's not your job to please everyone. If you continue to seek approval or need to be liked it tends to lower your sense of authenticity. If you've been known as a people pleaser, you have an attachment to other people's opinions. Imagine two tanks within you. One is the the love tank you fill for yourself, and another you fill by others. So many men, have such a hard time filling their own love tank from within that they put all their energy into getting it from others. When It doesn't come as anticipated, he takes a hit on a personal level. The root is a low self worth and self image. It can feel like a gut punch when you think you've done all the work and feel healed, only to get tested and see just how much it still impacts how one feels. I can speak to this on an expert level because I know this feeling on a very personal level. Sure, I have done a lot of work on myself, and have a pretty good ability to fill my own tank, and not be so attached to other people's opinion of me, but I am still not fully immune from taking a hit when others judge, criticize or misunderstand me. It's an on going learning curve. It takes the ability to get out of the ego and know that if I am coming from my truth and integrity, and I am doing the things that are congruent with my mission, then no matter how others perceive it is on them. They have a perception and comfort level of how you show up, so any change in your persona, any strength or a new energy shift within you, will take away the YOU they are comfortable with. At this point these people are your crabs in your bucket, people that continue to pull you down as you try to make your escape to a new reality. They need you to stay the same. Can you identify anyone in your life that shows up like this for you, when you try to change and/or take on a new, more empowered self? I have even heard that the more people don't like you or having "haters" means you are growing and making a bigger impact in the world. There's truth to this.
Can You Accept People Not Liking You?
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The Remarkable Man Project Is Evolving (Action Required)
Brothers, I need to be straight with you. I started The Remarkable Man Project because I believe the world is desperate for men who lead, men who show up fully for their families, their communities, and themselves. That mission hasn't changed. But I've been running this community the wrong way. I've been showing up every week to an empty room. I've been posting, engaging, trying every technique to spark something real here. And it's growth or lack there of falls on my shoulders. So I take full responsibility for that. As well, we all know - a free group doesn't create committed men. It creates spectators. And you deserve better than that. So do I. (If Reading This In Your Email: For Live Links Click the "View Post" Button Below) So I'm making a big move. 1. RMP is going Public - I am transitioning this group from Private to Public on the Skool platform. - Why?: To reach more men who are wanting a life-line in the "modern malaise" we find ourselves in. Skool and Google push content and promote public communities. This group will now serve as a searchable, high-value resource hub for men worldwide to discover the principles of the Remarkable Man beyond the limited bubble I created. - The Benefit: A larger influx of new energy, more perspectives, and a broader network. It becomes our "Front Porch." - You'll still receive the latest content, tools, resources, but with a growing community. - Join a pop up "Coffee Hour" in the weeks ahead. 2.🔥 INTRODUCING: THE REMARKABLE MAN INNER CIRCLE For those of you who have been waiting for the "How" - the implementation, the blueprints, and the direct access to me, I am officially launching the Remarkable Man Inner Circle. This is where the real work happens. Starting April 10th, the Remarkable Man Inner Circle becomes my primary community - a paid brotherhood for men who are done dabbling and ready to do the work and who want access to the Remarkable Man Framework - The 4 Pillars, and a higher level of accountability.
The Remarkable Man Project Is Evolving (Action Required)
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Welcome To RMP! Step 1: Introduce Yourself Here!
I am honoured to welcome you to The Remarkable Man Project. This is where you introduce yourself to the group! Right here right now. Don't procrastinate or tell yourself you'll get back to it. Just get it done now. 1) Tell us your name 2) Where you are from. 3) Your age 4) What you do 5) Your relationship status 6) How many kids? (If you have them) 7) How we can be best support you here in the RMP Community? (don't plug your business or opportunity) 8) Be sure to include a picture(s) that represents your life. As well, check here daily to welcome new members. Let them feel the love and the brotherhood! I get we all have busy lives, but as a new member or existing member I want to challenge you to play all-in. The Rules And Guide Lines: 1) Participate - Like anything you get out of life what you put in. So comment, like, and share your truth to the men in the community. The more you do, the more points you will receive! As you climb the leaderboard you'll unlock cool bonuses, videos, and resources to help you BE the remarkable man you desire. 2) No Spamming or self promotion- I know many of you are passionate about your product or service but this is not the forum for that. This also included private messaging fellow members about your services. If you are doing this practice, your membership will be deleted. 3) Keep this a safe space - Every man is going through his own challenges, pain and hardship. Be open, compassionate and accepting as to where they are at on the journey. We are all in this together and together we rise. 4) No Political or Divisive memes or conversation starters - We get that the world is in a dumpster fire right now, and the world is very divided, but let's keep the topics or leadership, empowerment, support, relationships, fatherhood, and being brothers to each other. This is not "The Average Man Project" so don't be average in your engagement and participation. You know how that "meh" energy plays out in most areas of your life.
It's Fearless Friday! Are You F'n Done With The Bullshit Story Too?
There's a moment when a "Pop!" occurs inside one's awareness. No not a blood vessel or shoulder dislocation, but the suddenness of it and the pain to get your attention is much the same. The "Bullshit Story" I am referring to needs no introduction. It is the one you know, and I don't even have to pin point it. You know it through and through. I've got one too! In fact, I've got a couple running in the background as an unconscious part of my central operating system. It is like a HVAC system, it's always on, but we don't have a minute by minute awareness of it. However, as time goes on. I am no longer comfortable as to where I set the meter. It now bugs me. It pisses me off! Scratch that! I'm fucking mad as hell as to what I have accepted as my comfort zone! The rub is, you get what you tolerate! Is this landing for you? Do get where I am coming from? Can you pin point the exact level you've set your own thermostat at? Here's why it should piss you off like it does me. It's your higher self, your big vision, goals, dreams and potential calling you forward. God is calling you to fulfil your purpose and BE the Remarkable Man (as you define him) that you know you are suppose to be. This has very little to do with how successful you are or aren't. It has everything to do with who you are BEING. Are you using your natural gifts and talents? Are you moving and fuelling your body like it was built for? Are you the example, mentor, or role model that others can learn from? Are you creating a legacy that you and your children would be proud of? There's a lot to unpack here, but if you are being triggered by the discomfort or enormity of your role or just how small you've chosen to play...Good! This post was meant to trigger you because your higher self needed you to read this. It is literally telling you, "See! This is what I have been trying to get you to understand! But you are so F'n stubborn, lazy and too busy playing the victim to hear me. So I am possessing Coach Dwayne right now so he'll write this post!"
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It's Fearless Friday! Are You F'n Done With The Bullshit Story Too?
How Much Is Your Time Worth?
I'm not talking about someone's perception of you and how much they wold pay you. I'm referring to how much you value your own time? I was recently listening to one of my favourite mentors, Ed Mylett, and was talking about how everything changed for him once he started to value his time. It was an interesting listen because I got a revelation that was surprising to me. You see, I thought I valued my time a lot. However, recent habits, distractions, and lack of discipline in using my systems told me a different story. I realized there are still deep holes in my productivity and and how I structure my day. Yes, I have a schedule and Yes I have put systems in place to keep me on track, but I have to tell you, my inner saboteur, can get me off my game quickly. Social media being the biggest distraction. It knows what gets me pissed off and "passionate" about world events. It's like it likes to poke the bear and test me to see how detached and focused I can be. Ai is another rabbit hole too! That's why I am writing this "analog style", meaning I'm writing old school with my own fingers typing directly what's on my mind. Brother, we all have the same ticks on the clock. Whether it is Elon Musk, Alex Hormozi or Ed Mylett. They all have the same 24 hours in a day. And as the Remarkable Man that you are, you've got to get more intentional with your day. And yes, the excuses have to go! Remember this is a letter to me as much as it is for you. So I want to challenge you to chunk down your days. Rise one hour earlier, get your work out in or your meditation time in. When are you most productive? Then double down during that time. I'm writing this at 2 PM. This is my second long form article of the day because this is my creative time and I am in the zone! I cannot stop creating until 3PM. Then I will switch gears and record a video. You know yourself better than anyone. What does your day have to look like for you to have a victory 3 times a day? Then set yourself up so that you prioritize those victories. After I post this article...That's a victory!
How Much Is Your Time Worth?
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