I’ve been thinking about what actually makes sense to unlock as people spend more time here.
I do use things like giveaways and prompts to encourage engagement — not as bribes, but because conversation and reflection are how this space stays alive. That part’s intentional... And fun.
But Level 7 feels like a different point.
By then, you’ve spent time reading, noticing patterns, asking questions, or quietly making sense of things in your own head. You’re not just passing through.
I value you all so much and wanted to show my appreciation!
So from Level 7, I’m unlocking Module 1: 📚
PDA – What It Really Is (and What It Isn’t) — free.
This module exists because PDA is still so widely misunderstood.
Not just online, but in schools, services, and parenting advice.
It covers:
what PDA actually refers to
what it’s often confused with
why so many common approaches escalate rather than help
and how a regulation-first lens changes how we respond
No pressure to “do” anything with it.
No expectation to engage in a certain way.
It’s there when you’re ready.
If you’re already Level 7, you’ll see it unlock automatically.
If you’re not there yet, just keep using the space in whatever way works for you.
I am also working on some more cards! ⭐
(Will also be available at level 7 when complete)
They’re called Demand Translator Cards.
They’re just examples of how I phrase everyday things so they don’t turn into a battle with my PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance) children!
Not scripts.
Not rules.
Just options.
That’s it. 🌿