I had heard somewhere that men are able to connect with women only when they first have a physical connection with them. And i thought it's a bunch of bullshit but turns out, it is right. I kept watching porn and jerking off like a lil bitch but then I slowly realised it is ruining my relationship. I didn't need my gf for the physical connection anymore because i got it from porn. I told her this in a different way, without mentioning anything about porn. And yeah... I feel like it's at the verge of ending... Hope the best for me brothers..