The ONE problem, tension, or conversation I want to own:
What happens after a devastating divorce or betrayal when the crisis is technically over, everyone expects you to move on, and you are still living in the aftermath trying to figure out who you are now.
What I want the audience to understand, believe, or be able to do differently after my talk:
I want women to understand that they do not have to be over it just because the relationship is over. I want them to stop judging themselves for still being affected, begin trusting themselves again, and realize they can start creating what comes next before they feel completely healed, certain, or ready.
- Permission Granted: You Don’t Have to Be Over It to Begin Again
Why a stage owner would want to book it:
It challenges the pressure women feel to recover on someone else’s timeline and gives the audience a hopeful, actionable path forward.
- The In-Between: Who Are You After the Life You Thought You’d Have Is Gone?
Why a stage owner would want to book it:
It names the identity crisis that can follow betrayal and divorce and opens a powerful conversation about rebuilding self-trust and identity.
- Stop Performing “I’m Fine”: What Comes After a Devastating Divorce
Why a stage owner would want to book it:
It takes a direct, slightly contrarian position against forced recovery and speaks to women who are exhausted from appearing okay when they aren’t.
- The Aftermath Nobody Talks About: How to Begin Again Before You Feel Ready
Why a stage owner would want to book it:
It creates curiosity around an overlooked phase of divorce recovery and gives the audience a clear promise — forward movement without waiting for perfect healing or certainty.
- When Everyone Thinks You Should Be Over It — But You’re Not
Why a stage owner would want to book it:
It speaks directly to the invisible pressure many women feel after a painful life disruption and opens a relatable conversation about grief, identity, and moving forward on your own timeline.
My Favorite Three
- Permission Granted: You Don’t Have to Be Over It to Begin Again
- The In-Between: Who Are You After the Life You Thought You’d Have Is Gone?
- When Everyone Thinks You Should Be Over It — But You’re Not