Discovering things about refereeing

FRAME: Truth Revealed - The Situation: Balancing a busy career, One growing businesses, and One on hold (Big Skye Dumpsters and Legacy), and the spiritual leadership of your wife and two children - The Story: You might be telling yourself that the weight of these legacies depends solely on your "internal bracing" or your ability to perform perfectly. - The Fact: Righteousness is not about my moral polish; it is my alignment with God. I am covered by a breastplate I did not forge yourself—you received it. FEEL: Internal Response - The Sensation: Notice the "internal bracing"—the tension in my chest or shoulders when I think about the next business move or the pressure of the 12-week forge - The Observation: Am I feeling the weight of the armor, or the security of the covering? Recognize the difference between the anxiety of striving and the weight of glory. FACE: What Must Die - The Habits: The need to negotiate with temptation or the tendency to let "impulses rule" when the pressure of business gets high. - The Lie: The belief that I am unworthy if the "needle" doesn’t move fast enough in business. - The Death: Kill the "wounded boy" who seeks validation through performance. Let the "consecrated man" rise, who operates from a place of being already "made right". FORGE: Action & Commitment - The Move: Today, speak my identity out loud to the "One True King". Declaration - The Action: Specifically, choose where I have been "shrinking or delaying" - after listening to Sean's video I want to check myself to make sure I am not substituting "spiritual behavior" or acting "holy" for an actual heart to heart connection. Righteousness in the home is about relationship, not religious correctness.

🔥 FIRE FRAMEWORK — CHAPTER 23: THE BELT OF TRUTH FRAME — Truth Revealed Truth isn’t information or feeling—it’s God’s reality, and it holds everything together. If the belt drops, everything fails: identity slips, discipline collapses, and Scripture becomes a burden instead of a weapon. And the deepest shift: Truth is a Person—Christ—so fastening the belt means fastening myself to Him, not to pressure. FEEL — Internal Response I feel steadier, less driven to prove. My worthiness feels settled—truth no longer demands frantic action, it produces grounded obedience. Stillness is becoming strength, not delay. FACE — What Must Die What must die: - using truth as pressure instead of stability - control disguised as “responsibility” - hiding, double-life thinking, and emotional narratives - grabbing for external order when internal order is available - any lie that fragments my identity or leadership Truth confronts before it stabilizes—and I stop running from the cut. FORGE — Action & Commitment I tighten the belt daily: stillness → surrender → honesty → expose lie → replace with Scripture → obey. I keep Spirit on the throne so truth governs my mind, steadies my emotions, and sharpens decisions. I stand my ground—Fire-Keeper posture—holding position because where the King rules, chaos cannot.