Before we get into the sisterhood and the stories, let’s start with the truth. Not opinions. Not stereotypes. Facts. Because when you look at the actual numbers on single motherhood in the US, it paints a very different picture than the one society likes to push. 80% of Black single mothers are the primary breadwinner AND caregiver. Nearly 60% of single moms work full-time AND manage childcare alone Single mothers are one of the fastest-growing segments of entrepreneurs. The average cost of childcare in the U.S. rivals in-state college tuition. Black single mothers are more likely to pursue higher education while raising kids than any other group. These numbers prove one thing: single moms aren’t struggling we’re strategizing. And this space is for all of us building community, clarity, stability, and a soft life on our terms. 💛

Dear SiStar welcome. If you found your way here, just know you’re in the right place, at the right time, with the right people. I created this space because single motherhood in this country is a whole experience that most folks love to comment on…but don’t actually understand. And I got tired of women like us having to read between the lines, shrink ourselves, or pretend we don’t see the subtle shade, the microaggressions, the stereotypes, and the quiet assumptions thrown our way. We deserve a community built for us, not around us. I’m a single mom myself stylish, intentional, divorced, and very much minding my business and I’ve seen firsthand how lonely it can feel navigating motherhood without a blueprint. I’ve been the only ‘Black’ Single mom in the room. I’ve been the “where’s your husband?” storyline. I’ve been treated differently based on everything from my outfit to my finger. And I know I’m not the only one. Here’s the real Single motherhood is not a downgrade. It’s not a deficit. It’s not something to “overcome.” It’s a powerful, intelligent, creative, resilient community of women who make a way out of no way and still show up polished, present, and raising exceptional kids. This space is for: ✨ Moms who carry the entire mental load ✨ Moms who budget like CFOs and love like aunties ✨ Moms who are soft, tired, ambitious, healing, glowing, or all of the above ✨ Moms who feel judged before they even open their mouth ✨ Moms who want sisterhood without the side-eye shade ✨ Moms who want resources, clarity, growth, and real conversation Here, we’re doing motherhood with transparency, humor, healing, and community. No performing. No competing. No pretending everything is fine when it isn’t. Just real women, real stories, real support. So get comfy, sis. Grab a cup of tea, drop your guard, and stay a while. We’re building something beautiful here — a village we all deserved from the beginning. Welcome to the community. You’re not alone here. ❤️