You’re not lazy. You’re not broken. You’re not "bad with money" or "unhealthy" or "just undisciplined." You’re simply stuck in habits that were built for survival—not freedom. Habits that were shaped by fear. By burnout. By trying to make things work in a world that’s never made space for women like us to truly thrive. But here’s what changed everything for me: I stopped trying to “fix” the version of me that was stuck. Instead, I connected with the version of me who had already broken through. I started asking: ✨ What does she do differently? ✨ How does she spend her time, her energy, her money? ✨ What does she refuse to tolerate anymore? And I listened. I let her lead instead of giving into the scared version of me. The people-pleaser. The one who kept repeating the same patterns, hoping for different results. The new version of is the one who’s free. Who wakes up calm, powerful, and deeply alive. Because she knows what’s possible. She knows it was never about being “disciplined”—it was about being aligned. So if you’re stuck in the same old habits, try this: Stop asking how to fix yourself. Start asking how to meet the woman you’re becoming. And when you let her take the wheel? That’s when things really start to shift.

Forget trying to change everything at once. You can't force yourself to stop all bad habits at once and establish a whole new regime overnight. Instead, start simple: 1️⃣ Pick ONE area to explore You don’t need to master everything. Choose something that interests you—passive income, business, digital products, whatever resonates—and start there. 2️⃣ Get some skin in the game The best way to learn? Do something. Buy a small digital asset. Invest in an online course. Experiment with a new platform. The goal isn’t to “win” on Day 1—it’s to start playing the right game. 3️⃣ Surround yourself with the right people The old system thrives on keeping people small. If you want to break free, start connecting with people who are already doing what you want to do. You don’t need permission—just exposure to the right conversations. 4️⃣ Remember: Action beats perfection You’ll make mistakes. You’ll feel uncertain. But the people who get ahead? They don’t let fear stop them. Because the truth is, waiting until you feel 100% ready is the same as deciding to do nothing. Remember: focusing on the one thing gets you further than focusing on the many. Let's get laser focused!

When it comes to OTHERS, I'm the one you can rely on. The good friend, the helpful colleague, etc. But when it comes to the things that matter to ME, I'm the queen of “I’ll do it later.” ⌚Later when I have more time. ⌚Later when I have more money. ⌚Later when I feel like it. Guess what? Later never comes. And I never FEEL like it. I realised that I have wasted almost 40 years of my life just planning and envisioning my future but not putting my plans into action. So, I've become a F*cketlister. And, yes, there's a Skool community for that. 😁 So, I’m done waiting. Done putting things off. Done acting like I have forever to do the things I actually want to do. I’ve made my F*cketlist—a list of everything I want to experience, achieve, and live before 31 December 2029. And whilst I have no idea how to do half of the stuff I have put on that list, I'm already one step closer to achieving ALL of the things on this list. Just because I wrote them down. My actual list is in the picture below 👇 And this time? I’m not just writing it down. I’m crossing it off! Because life isn’t a dress rehearsal. If I don’t start saying yes to myself now, when will I? Are you in a habit of putting things off, too? Tell me in the comments.