You’re not lazy. You’re not broken. You’re not "bad with money" or "unhealthy" or "just undisciplined."
You’re simply stuck in habits that were built for survival—not freedom.
Habits that were shaped by fear. By burnout. By trying to make things work in a world that’s never made space for women like us to truly thrive.
But here’s what changed everything for me: I stopped trying to “fix” the version of me that was stuck.
Instead, I connected with the version of me who had already broken through.
I started asking:
✨ What does she do differently?
✨ How does she spend her time, her energy, her money?
✨ What does she refuse to tolerate anymore?
And I listened. I let her lead instead of giving into the scared version of me. The people-pleaser. The one who kept repeating the same patterns, hoping for different results.
The new version of is the one who’s free. Who wakes up calm, powerful, and deeply alive.
Because she knows what’s possible. She knows it was never about being “disciplined”—it was about being aligned.
So if you’re stuck in the same old habits, try this: Stop asking how to fix yourself.
Start asking how to meet the woman you’re becoming. And when you let her take the wheel? That’s when things really start to shift.